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I just wanna go home but nowhere seems like home to me. Do you connect with this feeling? What are you going to do about it? What can you do about it? You can be happy and have this feeling but you can’t be content with your life?
If this feeling sounds like a bit of you, don’t doubt yourself. Use it as a catalyst to change your life for the better. Keep an open mind and remember to connect with others to talk through tour feelings if it will help bring clarity to your life decisions. Depression is a medical condition and we don’t offer medical advice. If you feel depressed you should seek medical advice asap.
Find out where your home is
You have to find your purpose in life. 99 percent of people have a simple purpose. Only 1 percent are destined to save the world. Of that 1 percent most do the opposite unintentionally!
Most peoples life from the outside is pointless. Their existence on this planet to others is or was pointless. What others think of your life is not your problem. Your problem in your life is to solve why you are here and what you are going to do to be content with your life.
When is your life enough for you?
- When will you have enough money?
- When will you have enough friends?
- When will you have enough people liking you?
It’s not for other people to determine that. That is your job in life. Remember however, that if you are what you think other people think of you and not what you think of you, you will never be happy with your life. You will always be second-guessing what others think of you.
- Normally you will be wrong about what other people think of you.
- If you are right about what other people think of you, it is unlikely you will be able to change their mind what they think so you will always be unhappy with them and yourself
- If you are wrong about what other people think of you, it is unlikely you will find that out but you will have wasted your life trying to change someones mind to like you when they already do like you
You see you are living a fools life even caring what other people think of you. What you have to do to feel content with your life, feel like you are home, is to like yourself. If you don’t like yourself you need to change that and only that. Knowing what to change is really up to you.
- First of all you need to be clear what you want in your life, not just what you do want in your life
- Secondly, you need to do at least one thing every single day that will make your life better that day or will make your life better in future. Don’t assume the stereotypical things representing a good life are is the best life for you. For example, life by the beach maybe one persons dream could be hell for someone who wants to make more money every day till they drop dead
- Thirdly, you need to be consistent. At best your actions will create tiny improvement to your life. If you don’t do something every day to improve your life then your life will not get better. No one is going to come into your life and make it better. Only you can make your life better each day
Yes what you think will make your life better will change. Living your best life plan is like every single plan in life or business. No plan works in practice. Life changes the best laid life plan! However, you have to know what will make your life better each day and then do something that day – not tomorrow – that will make your life better.
One day near the end of your life you will realise that your effort each day to be a better person – for you – will have worked – for you. You might arrive at a totally different destination from where you thought you would when you set out. That is unimportant. What’s important is that you led the best life you could. You will feel content with your effort. You will feel you have arrived home.
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I just want to go home but I don’t know where home is