Sobriety Diary Over 55 Years Old

Observing the good and bad of sobriety

I’ve tried to tread this path before. Not entirely seriously or with deliberate endeavour. However, I know it is the best thing for me. I just haven’t had the single-minded objectiveness till now. To help me complete the journey, and to look back at where I’ve come from, I thought I would journal my trip that has no final destination in my lifetime. With the exception of death, I can’t say I have completed the sobriety journey, but where else on my journey to alcohol-free death will my sobriety journey take me for the rest of my life?

Over 55 Sobriety Journey 

I’ve been here before. The longest to date without drinking is around five months. That, so far, is an echoed in my first two weeks of my sobriety journey. Essentially for the first two weeks or so I just have to get through it any way I can. If that means eating more sweets than is healthy – I’ll do it. If it means i have to just slob out – I’ll do it. If it means I have to withdraw from doing things I normally enjoy – I’ll do it. There is no right or wrong except making an excuse to have just one drink thinking it’s a small cheat. That is cheating myself big time. Living an unhealthy lifestyle for a couple of weeks is not ideal but I don’t try to be perfect.

FIRST 2 WEEKS OF SOBRIETY

My longer game benefits from stopping drinking will make up for a couple of weeks of downtime. The first moment I wake up feeling amazing instead of dull lacklustre or empty is the best feeling in the world bar none – and I mean none! The free high you experience that morning, I must try to remember and be grateful for. Gratitude is the key to happiness. 

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The first couple of weeks is always a de-pickling of the brain for me! I have had lots of periods which I have refrained from drinking alcohol. The first couple of weeks has always involved a physical change in the brain and a short period of mental numbness. Physical change claim, I am not a doctor, may or may not be true. There certainly seems to be what I call brain shrinkage. My brain seems to physically gurgle as it unsticks itself from my skull! This is why my medically untrained mind guesses that it is my brain shrinking due to the lack of alcohol? FYI, I do not intend to explore the physics or science behind my sobriety journey. It is my experience of the journey that I am journaling, not the medical facts of my sobriety journey.

I am only still sober one hour at a time. Maintaining sobriety is sometimes about not having a drink in the next 5 minutes never mind the next hour, day or month.

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I wouldn’t say I have failed before. I have never promised myself I would never have another drink before. I have had an aspiration before to not drink ever again. However having an aspiration is different from an objective. This sobriety journey is now a key goal in my life. Previously, the periods of not drinking have always come to an end before I died. This time, my goal is to die before I have another drink!

Sobriety is not my only goal. It will be a key part of totally changing my life. I need the clarity of thought that comes with sobriety to be of sharp mind when making dynamic lifestyle decisions. From my previous episodes of giving up drinking, I know that not drinking sharpens the mind. That benefit as always in the past been surrendered when I returned to drinking again. Even although previously sobriety was not the objective, I knew in my own mind that drinking again was a mistake if I wanted to live the best life I can live. So the return to drinking was always with immediate joy and delight from the alcohol high hit, shortly followed by different levels of regret, disappointment in myself and even sometimes shame. I’ve always known in the past what my best life involved and that doesn’t include drinking alcohol. In the past I have made different excuses to drink again, but this time I will have no excuses. This sobriety journey is a definite life goal. This time if I drink I will have failed.

This sobriety journey will encompass a total change of life. If there is such a thing as a wrong decision, then my clarity of thought that definitely comes with every period of alcohol abstinence, will be crucial to my new radical lifestyle changes. My first 2 weeks of being alcohol-free has come to an end with the usual glorious couple of mornings when I wake up incredibly happy. An overwhelming feeling of happiness burns inside my belly. It is not a smug joy. It is not a self-satisfied or selfish joy. It’s simply my mind discovering that my body has completed its first stage of repairing my brain. My brain is signalling it has recovered from the toxic abuse I have put it through most of my life. My brain is saying thank you. At last it can work again unhindered by the chemicals from alcohol inhibiting my minds ability to think properly. 

When I awake in the morning I am immediately aware of how happy I am. It is important for me not to get up. This moment is to be savoured. It will be the best moment of my day. I must spend a few minutes being even more aware mindful and grateful for this feeling of joy and delight to be alive today. I breathe more deeply slowly and deliberately through my nose only whilst observing all my senses more acutely to heighten the high I am now experiencing. I am now aware my nose is unblocked even though I did not know my nose was blocked over the last weeks months and perhaps years. More air is rushing to my lungs and my brain is lapping up the new boost of oxygen. Gradually sometimes immediately I am aware of new ideas of what to do today tomorrow and the rest of my life. Ideas I may  not know I was even thinking about before or ideas of how to solve problems I was struggling with yesterday. I know I need to dictate these ideas or writing them down type them into my phone so I do not forget these gems that have come into my life today. Without trying without asking without even needing, the universe has found the next steps to a better life specific to my life. I think the absence of alcohol over the last couple of weeks has deepened my sleep pattern. My brain has had a chance to rejuvenate, repair itself and understand what happened yesterday the day before or last year. My brain better understands what I want in life, and has mapped out what I need to do today tomorrow and the rest of my life but has only given me a few of the next steps I need to take. I am not greedy so I do not try to force these next baby steps into a full lifestyle plan and take them for what they are without trying to complete a jigsaw of my life. I need to be grateful for the little steps given during the night. Tomorrow I may be fortunate enough to receive more insight into how to change my life for the better, but for the moment I am just ecstatic that I have been placed with acute happiness. Not only have I woken up happier, I know what to do today to have a great day.

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Reaching this stage should be enough for me to never drink alcohol again. The payoff of not drinking is huge mentally and physically, but I know the demons within me are just resting. They are waiting for the right time to obscure the benefits of not drinking. If I am to complete my sobriety journey I will have to be more alert to the moments that will trip me up and end my sobriety journey. In the past I have not always failed to navigate the demons that dragged me back into a mediocre life. On at least one occasion I set out on the not drinking path without a a clear destination. Along the way, I picked a clear destination in terms of months ahead where I would drink – a planned holiday. I didn’t want to go on holiday and not drink. This helped to keep me on the path of not drinking but ultimately was a self defeating goal to set for myself. Mission completed with me drinking again! This time it’s different. My mission will only be completed if I never drink again. Why don’t you come along for the ride.

THIRD WEEK

Every day of not drinking in the third week has been better than any day of drinking.

The third week this time around is different from the third week on previous sobriety projects. On previous projects to remain sober, the third week was a lot harder. On reflection it is easier this time because my sobriety journey this time is to never drink again, as opposed to not drink for as long as possible, or not drink for a defined period.

If you are remaining sober for as long as possible, you are not sure when it is okay to have a drink or not. In the past I have given myself a pass or time-out. If you are aiming to never drink again, then obviously there is no day upon which it is okay to have a drink. Strangely, this time around it is easier to not drink in the third week now I have set the goal of never drinking again. Giving myself the clear unambiguous goal of forever stopping drinking has made it crystal clear what is and what is not acceptable. Knowing what failure looks like this time is obvious so as totally eliminated the option of having a cheeky drink and restarting the clock on my next sobriety timer project. The “I’ll do better next time” mentality.

What is consistent in the third week is the amount of extra energy I have. Boundless extra energy is one of the major gifts of sobriety. I can and do do so much more than any week I have had even a single drink. My focus on my life without a drink in it enables me to be hyper productive. Being more productive does not make me more successful this week but hopefully I will be more successful in life in future as well as sober. What success in life looks like is for me to determine – no one else. Success this far at not drinking is both a blessing and a potential trap. It can, if you allow it, present an opportunity to have a drink to celebrate! I’ve earned it! However, this time I have combined my sobriety journey with other major life change projects. These other projects soak up the extra time and energy I have from not drinking and make giving up drinking even more rewarding for me. The extra energy will not be wasted this time.

I think it is a good idea to have a clear plan of what I am going to do with the rest of my life. I can then invest the extra energy derived from not drinking to achieve more in my life than just sobriety. Even if my plan is a little more vague and uncertain than many would have, I at least have a vague idea of what a better life looks like for me. My life, like most perhaps, does not enable me to just do what I want. I have to have alternative routes loosely imagined or envisioned so that if life does not give me the opportunity I think is best for me or anticipated by me I can at least use plan B,C or D to find my way to my end destination or at least a new destination that is as equally satisfying and rewarding.

If I was just being sober for a set period, then it is best for me to have a full day. By this I mean I need distractions. Activities – distractions – help me to avoid creating opportunities for drinking and could include walking, cycling or doing a hobby. Whatever takes my mind and free time off drinking. However, as my plan is to be sober for the rest of my life, I feel I really need to capitalise on the gift of extra energy to really embroider upon the obvious health benefits of being sober. In my case, I am investing the extra energy into a more serious approach to my business ideas including the creation of more income.

This week I have made the mistake of not going to bed earlier. By earlier I mean 9 to 10pm in the evening. It has resulted in me still waking early in the morning absolutely refreshed, but flagging in mid to late afternoon. In my semi-retirement, I am lucky that I have the option of having a nap. but this for me can be lethal in terms of disrupting my enjoyment of life. I find it better to push through and not nap if I can, but sometimes a nap is the best option as it can give a little boost.

This does depend on whether you are a night person or a morning person. Going to bed between 9 and 10pm is the optimal time for me but I do recommend going to bed at same time every single night and your body should adjust to wake you up at same time every morning without an alarm clock. The benefit of this is that your body is more balanced if you have consistent lifestyle pattern, in my experience.

A peculiar thing I have found from my bouts of not drinking is that the odd days can be harder than the evens! 1,3,5 etc have been harder than 2,4, 6 etc days. I have absolutely no explanation for this. It is however worth noting that some days are harder than others for absolutely no reason whatsoever. I think it wise simply to accept this rather than search for reasons or lessons.

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In addition, life can get in the way of best laid plans. A birthday, works event or some other social occasion create opportunities to make excuses to have a drink. Navigating past these pitfalls is perhaps the hardest part of a change to sobriety. I need to have a plan for such threats of failure. Soft drinks or alcohol-free drinks work for some but not giving a damn what others think of you is the best plan. This involves me not drinking anything at all. After the first couple of drinks rounds have passed I realise I can not only cope but enjoy alcohol-free socialising. After the adrenaline on arrival subsides I love the dawning of the fact that I really don’t need to drink alcohol to enjoy myself. There does come a time after half a dozen drinks that you become detached from from your drunk companions. They are on a different mission from me. I can’t go with them. I have to pick a time to leave early. The feeling of leaving early becomes a relief or even elation not sadness. I don’t have FOMO any more. Remembering how good I am going to feel tomorrow is reward for leaving early.

FOURTH WEEK

My fourth week was a strange week. An unasked review of my life. Happy to live in present, I found my mind wandering off on its own to the past.

I had not set out on my sobriety journey to discover were things had gone wrong in my life. Where I was four weeks ago in my life was quietly happy with the exception of my drinking habit. I knew back then drinking did not provide a nett benefit to my enjoyment of my life. Strange therefore that my mind repeatedly wandered off into the past to look at my life differently via new unglazed goggles.

Turns out my successes in the past may not have been successes and my failures have been my successes. Furthermore, I think now that drinking has never made my highs better and always played some role in my lows. I used alcohol to try to feel part of the perceived in-crowd or part of the team or even just part of the perceived best things in the world. I think I wanted to merge-in instead of trying to be extraordinary.

Alcohol didn’t help me merge-in. It made me zone-out. The numbness to life under the effects of alcohol wasn’t a good thing. At times I needed to feel numb, not to feel more alive. I know now that living life alcohol-free makes me feel so much more alive. In the bad old days, most of my life, I mistakenly thought alcohol was good for me when in fact it was never good for me at any time. Happy and sad times were always negatively impacted or made worse with alcohol.

Now both my happy and and sad times are so much better experienced sober. Being sober does not make my life less troublesome. It does enable me to manage the good and bad better. Being sober does not make my life better. Being sober makes your appreciation of living better and gratitude for what I do have in my life more real. Being sober makes me happier, even if my life could be perceived as less attractive or unsuccessful.

The success of my life is measured better by me doing the analysis of me rather than concerning myself with other people’s assessment of my life. Having a clearer sober mind facilitates better more honest quicker trustworthy calculations by me. Being sober may not make me more successful in my lifetime, but it will enable me to love what does transpire in my life more.

Sobriety does not make me less ambitious. Sobriety makes me more confident and focused on my ability to make the right choices for the right reasons and that will make my assessment of my life better.

Another curious physical change I find during sobriety is what I call the physical drying-up sensation and unblocking of my nose and sinuses. I can breathe through my nose and sinuses. I can breathe through my nose more freely. Not sure what the medical reasoning may be for this, but each and every time I have stopped drinking for a period, this physical experience occurs!

FIRST TWO MONTHS SOBRIETY

The biggest gains physically and mentally come in the first month to 6 weeks. That’s when the biggest differences can be felt. Definitely, the decision to give up drinking forever makes it easier to give up drinking. A clear unequivocal commitment with no get-out clause helps me to set my mind on what is right and wrong.

The second month is easier than the first month. There is more at stake, more to waste, if I give up in the second month, by my desire to drink in the second month us is less.

There is a feeling of further clarity of thinking unencumbered by drink in the second month, it’s just not as obvious an improvement witnessed in the first month.

All-in-all this should monthly stoppers some encouragement. Those flirting with giving up for good. If you can do one month you can easily do two, etc. Furthermore, returning to drinking after a month off with a view of having another month off sometime in future is harder than giving up for good. The first month off seems to be the hardest.

Drink-free is more rewarding. More satisfying. My mind is more capable to appreciating my life. More grateful for what I have in my life. It can make the bad more raw, but it makes the good better. Not drinking gives me a more genuine experience of life. Sure alcohol can anesthetise the bad but it also anesthetise the good experiences.

Living a more real life without alcohol is my life now. Maybe it could be yours too. It’s not as hard to give up drinking if your mind is clear why you want to give up drinking.

Quit Alcohol: 10 Tips

Breaking Free from Alcohol: Expert Tips and Tricks

If you’re looking to give up alcohol, you’re not alone. Many people in the UK struggle with alcohol addiction and are looking for ways to quit. Here are the top 10 tips to help you give up alcohol:

  1. Set realistic goals: Set a target for how much you want to reduce your alcohol consumption and stick to it. Gradual reduction is often more achievable than quitting cold turkey.
  2. Find alternative activities: Find alternative ways to relax and socialise that don’t involve alcohol, such as exercise, hobbies, or spending time with friends and family.
  3. Avoid triggers: Identify situations that trigger your alcohol cravings and try to avoid them, such as certain bars or social events.
  4. Keep yourself busy: Stay busy with work, hobbies, and social activities to help distract you from alcohol cravings.
  5. Seek support: Find friends, family, or a support group who understand your struggle and can provide you with emotional support and encouragement.
  6. Keep track of your progress: Keep a diary of your alcohol consumption and take note of how you feel after you quit. This can help you stay motivated and see your progress.
  7. Try medication: Consider taking medication such as naltrexone, acamprosate, or disulfiram, which can help reduce alcohol cravings.
  8. Get professional help: Consult with a doctor or therapist who specialises in alcohol addiction. They can provide you with personalized support and treatment.
  9. Consider a rehabilitation program: If your alcohol addiction is severe, consider enrolling in a rehabilitation program where you can receive professional help and support.
  10. Remember why you want to quit: Keep in mind the reasons why you want to quit alcohol, such as improving your health, finances, or relationships. Use these reasons as motivation to stay sober.

Remember, quitting alcohol is a journey and it’s important to take it one day at a time. With patience, determination, and support, you can overcome alcohol addiction and lead a healthier, happier life.

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  10. From Addiction to Abstinence: A Comprehensive Guide to Quitting Alcohol

From Addiction to Abstinence

Quitting alcohol can be a challenging but life-changing decision. Whether you’re struggling with addiction or simply looking to lead a healthier lifestyle, here’s a comprehensive guide to help you on your journey from addiction to abstinence.

Recognise the Problem: The first step in quitting alcohol is acknowledging that you have a problem. Be honest with yourself and evaluate the impact of alcohol on your life, including your health, relationships, work, and overall well-being. Accepting that you have a problem is an important starting point for change.

Set Clear Goals: Once you’ve recognised the problem, set clear and achievable goals for quitting alcohol. It’s important to define your reasons for quitting and what you hope to achieve by abstaining from alcohol. Whether it’s improved health, better relationships, or a more fulfilling life, having clear goals can provide you with motivation and direction.

Seek Support: Quitting alcohol can be challenging, and it’s important to have a support system in place. Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist who can provide emotional support and help you stay accountable. Consider joining a support group, such as Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), which provides a community of individuals who are also on the journey to sobriety.

Develop Coping Strategies: Alcohol often serves as a coping mechanism for dealing with stress, anxiety, or other emotions. When quitting alcohol, it’s important to develop healthy coping strategies to replace alcohol as a means of dealing with difficult emotions. This can include practicing relaxation techniques, engaging in physical exercise, journaling, or seeking professional help if needed.

Remove Triggers: Identify and remove triggers that tempt you to drink. This can include avoiding places, people, or situations that trigger cravings for alcohol. Make changes in your routine or lifestyle to minimise exposure to triggers, and create a supportive environment that promotes abstinence.

Create a Plan: Develop a plan for how to handle cravings or temptations. Have a list of alternative activities or distractions that you can turn to when cravings arise. Identify healthy outlets for stress or negative emotions, such as going for a walk, talking to a friend, or practicing mindfulness.

Take Care of Your Physical Health: Quitting alcohol can have physical effects on your body. Take care of your physical health by eating a balanced diet, staying hydrated, and getting regular exercise. Seek medical attention if you experience withdrawal symptoms, and be mindful of any underlying health conditions that may have been exacerbated by alcohol use.

Practice Self-Care: Sobriety is a journey of self-care. Take time to prioritise your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Engage in activities that bring you joy, practice self-compassion, and prioritise self-care as an essential part of your recovery journey.

Stay Accountable: Hold yourself accountable for your decision to quit alcohol. Keep track of your progress, celebrate your achievements, and learn from any setbacks. Surround yourself with supportive people who can help you stay accountable to your goals.

Create a New Life: Quitting alcohol is not just about giving up a habit, but also about creating a new, fulfilling life without alcohol. Explore new hobbies, discover healthy ways to have fun, and focus on building a meaningful and fulfilling life that aligns with your values.
Remember, quitting alcohol is a personal journey, and it’s important to be patient with yourself. Recovery is not always easy, and setbacks may happen along the way. But with determination, support, and a comprehensive plan, it is possible to overcome addiction and achieve a healthy, fulfilling life of abstinence. Seek professional help if needed, and remember that you are not alone. Recovery is possible, and you deserve a happy, healthy, and sober life.

Practice Relapse Prevention: Relapse is a common part of the recovery process, but it doesn’t have to be the end of your journey to abstinence. Learn to recognise triggers and warning signs of relapse, and have a plan in place for how to handle them. This can include reaching out to your support system, engaging in healthy coping strategies, and reminding yourself of your reasons for quitting alcohol.

Address Underlying Issues: Many individuals turn to alcohol as a way to cope with underlying emotional or mental health issues. As part of your journey to abstinence, it’s important to address these underlying issues through therapy, counseling, or other appropriate interventions. Understanding and addressing the root causes of your alcohol use can greatly enhance your chances of long-term abstinence.

Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness is a powerful tool that can help you stay present in the moment and manage cravings or triggers. Incorporate mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing, meditation, or mindfulness exercises, into your daily routine to help you stay grounded and focused on your recovery journey.

Build a Supportive Social Network: Surround yourself with supportive individuals who understand and respect your decision to quit alcohol. Build a social network that encourages and supports your sobriety. This can include attending support group meetings, connecting with sober friends, or engaging in activities that do not revolve around alcohol.

Take it One Day at a Time: Recovery is a process that requires patience and persistence. Focus on taking it one day at a time, and celebrate each day of sobriety as a significant accomplishment. Avoid overwhelming yourself with thoughts of the future, and instead, stay focused on the present moment and the progress you are making.

Practice Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your journey, your emotions, and your progress. Journaling, therapy, or self-reflection exercises can help you gain insight into your triggers, emotions, and patterns of behaviour. Understanding yourself better can empower you to make positive changes and stay committed to your goal of abstinence.

Celebrate Milestones: Celebrate your milestones along the way. Whether it’s a week, a month, a year, or more of sobriety, acknowledge and celebrate your achievements. Treat yourself to something special, share your success with your support system, and take pride in your progress.

Stay Committed to Self-Care: Self-care is crucial in recovery. Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental health by getting enough sleep, eating well, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Prioritise self-care as a non-negotiable part of your daily routine to support your overall well-being and resilience in your recovery journey.

Stay Positive and Patient: Recovery from alcohol addiction is a challenging process that requires time and effort. It’s important to stay positive and patient with yourself as you navigate the ups and downs of the journey. Be kind to yourself, practice self-compassion, and remember that change takes time.

Stay Committed to Your Goals: Finally, stay committed to your goals of abstinence from alcohol. Remind yourself of your reasons for quitting, and stay focused on the positive changes that sobriety can bring to your life. Surround yourself with reminders of your commitment, such as affirmations, notes, or symbols, and stay determined in your pursuit of a healthy, alcohol-free life.
Quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence is a challenging but rewarding journey. It requires dedication, self-reflection, and support from others. Remember to be kind to yourself, seek help when needed, and stay committed to your goals. With determination, support, and a comprehensive plan in place, you can successfully overcome alcohol addiction and achieve a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling life of abstinence

Seek Professional Help: If you find yourself struggling with quitting alcohol or maintaining abstinence despite your best efforts, don’t hesitate to seek professional help. Addiction counsellors, therapists, or medical professionals can provide additional support, guidance, and resources to aid you in your recovery journey. They can also help you address any underlying mental health issues that may be contributing to your alcohol use.

Create a Relapse Prevention Plan: A relapse prevention plan is a crucial tool in maintaining abstinence. Work with your counselor or therapist to create a personalised plan that includes strategies to identify and manage triggers, coping skills to deal with cravings, and a plan of action if a relapse occurs. Having a plan in place can help you stay proactive in preventing relapse and staying on track with your recovery goals.

Build a Healthy Lifestyle: Engage in healthy lifestyle choices that support your recovery. This can include regular exercise, a nutritious diet, and adequate sleep. Taking care of your physical health can help you feel better overall and reduce the risk of relapse.

Develop Healthy Coping Skills: Alcohol may have been your previous coping mechanism, but it’s important to develop healthy coping skills that can help you manage stress, emotions, and triggers in a positive way. This can include mindfulness, deep breathing, exercise, hobbies, or talking to a trusted friend or family member.

Learn from Relapses: Relapses can happen in the recovery process, but it’s essential to view them as learning opportunities rather than failures. If you do experience a relapse, take the time to reflect on the triggers and circumstances that led to it, and use it as an opportunity to reassess and strengthen your recovery plan.

Practice Assertiveness: Learning to say no and set boundaries is crucial in maintaining abstinence. Practice assertiveness skills to communicate your needs, assert your boundaries, and avoid situations that may trigger your alcohol use. Surround yourself with individuals who respect and support your decision to abstain from alcohol.

Find Healthy Ways to Have Fun: Alcohol may have been associated with socialising and having fun in the past, but it’s important to find healthy ways to enjoy yourself without alcohol. Discover new hobbies, engage in activities that bring you joy, and build a fulfilling and enjoyable life without the need for alcohol.

Stay Mindful of High-Risk Situations: Be aware of high-risk situations that may trigger your alcohol use, such as parties, social events, or stressful situations. Have a plan in place to manage these situations, such as bringing a sober friend with you, having an exit strategy, or using healthy coping skills to manage cravings.

Practice Self-Compassion: Recovery is a challenging process, and it’s important to be kind to yourself along the way. Practice self-compassion, forgive yourself for past mistakes, and be patient with yourself as you navigate the ups and downs of recovery. Treat yourself with the same love and care you would offer to a friend in a similar situation.

Stay Committed to Your Sobriety: Finally, stay committed to your sobriety and make it a priority in your life. Surround yourself with a supportive network, continue to engage in healthy coping strategies, and seek help when needed. Remember that recovery is a lifelong journey, and staying committed to your sobriety is essential for maintaining abstinence from alcohol.
Quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence is a courageous and transformative journey. It may come with challenges, but with perseverance, self-care, support, and a comprehensive plan in place, it is possible to achieve and maintain a fulfilling life of sobriety. Remember to be patient, kind to yourself, and seek professional help when needed. You are capable of overcoming alcohol addiction and living a healthier, happier, and more fulfilled life without alcohol. Celebrate your progress and achievements along the way, and remember that every step towards sobriety is a step towards a brighter future.

In conclusion, quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence requires commitment, effort, and support. It’s important to have a plan in place, seek professional help when needed, and prioritize self-care and healthy coping skills. With determination, resilience, and a supportive network, you can overcome alcohol addiction and lead a fulfilling life in recovery. You deserve a life free from the negative impacts of alcohol, and you are capable of achieving and maintaining abstinence. Take it one day at a time, stay focused on your goals, and never give up on your journey towards lasting sobriety.

Remember, if you or someone you know is struggling with alcohol addiction, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. There are many resources available, including addiction counselors, therapists, support groups, and treatment centers that can provide the necessary support and guidance. You are not alone, and recovery is possible. Take the first step towards a healthier, happier life by seeking help and taking action towards quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence. You deserve a brighter future, and it’s never too late to start your journey towards recovery.

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Sustainable happiness is learning to enjoy life while solving your problems

Does happiness come from solving problems in your life

Removing all of your problems in your life is definitely impossible. It may not even be desirable as solving your life problems will probably improve your life. Even if you had everything you wanted in your life you would still have the problem of deciding which of the great things to do next! If you accept you will always have problems in your life then the next thing to tackle is how to enjoy solving your problems instead of being stressed out by your problem solving tasks. Once you crack this you will always be happy with your life.

What is the difference between happiness and sustainable happiness

Most if not everyone can find at least a fleeting moment of happiness from something. Few people can be happy most of the time. Sustainable happiness is finding a way to be happy most of the time. Finding happiness in the problems in your life is a good way of creating a happy life. From the mundane problems in life to the existential problems encountered occasionally, finding joy in the tackling of life problems may not beat the problem but it will help you to deal with life problems in a better way.

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Spend time with loved ones. Our relationships with our loved ones are one of the most important sources of happiness in our lives. Make time for the people who matter most to you, and let them know how much you care.

Give back to others. Helping others is a great way to feel good about ourselves and make a difference in the world. Find a cause that you care about and get involved.

Do things that make you happy. Take some time each day to do something that you enjoy. This could be anything from reading a book to taking a walk in nature.

Practice gratitude. Take some time each day to reflect on the things that you are grateful for. This could be anything from your health to your family and friends.

Be mindful. Mindfulness is the practice of paying attention to the present moment without judgment. When we are mindful, we are more aware of our thoughts, feelings, and surroundings. This can help us to appreciate the good things in our lives and to let go of negative thoughts and emotions.

Exercise regularly. Exercise is not only good for our physical health, but it is also good for our mental health. Exercise releases endorphins, which have mood-boosting effects.

Get enough sleep. When we are well-rested, we are better able to cope with stress and to enjoy life. Aim for 7-8 hours of sleep per night.

Eat a healthy diet. What we eat has a big impact on our mood and energy levels. Make sure to eat plenty of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains.

Avoid negative people. Negative people can bring us down and make us feel unhappy. If you have someone in your life who is always negative, try to limit your interactions with them.

Seek professional help. If you are struggling to be happy, don’t be afraid to seek professional help. A therapist can help you to identify the things that are making you unhappy and to develop strategies for coping with stress and improving your mood.

These are just a few easy ways to enjoy life more. By making some simple changes in your life, you can increase your happiness and live a more fulfilling life.

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Spend time in nature. Being in nature has been shown to have a number of benefits for our mental and physical health. Go for a walk in the park, hike in the woods, or simply sit in your backyard and enjoy the fresh air.

Learn something new. Learning new things can help to keep our minds active and engaged. Take a class, read a book, or try a new hobby.

Create something. Whether it’s painting, writing, or playing music, creating something can be a rewarding and enjoyable experience.

Spend time with animals. Animals can provide us with unconditional love and support. Volunteer at an animal shelter or simply pet your own furry friend.

Do something for yourself. Make time for the things that you enjoy, even if it’s just for a few minutes each day. Take a bubble bath, read a book, or take a nap.

Be present. One of the best ways to enjoy life is to be present in the moment. Focus on what you’re doing and who you’re with, and let go of worries about the past or the future.

Life is short, so make the most of it! By following these tips, you can learn to enjoy life more and live a happier, more fulfilling life.

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Learn to work harder on yourself than your job

The hardest work is working on yourself

Pay more attention to your mindset. Your internal voice is key to leading the life you want for yourself. Instead of spending your time and money destressing after work invest your time in improving yourself.

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Power of Positivity

You are good enough. Be more confident in your worth your ability to achieve more and the right to be happy. Love yourself more.

Positive thinking is not really about eliminating bad or poor thoughts. Positivity is about developing a personal expectation that you are worth good things happening in your life. You should think good thoughts about yourself so that you attract good things into your life. This doesn’t mean you will be happy all the time or that only good things will happen to you. It simply means you send out positive vibes or messages so that you attract good things into your life today and with gratitude for what you do already have in your life, maybe better things in your life tomorrow.

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How to back yourself more to achieve more in your life

Believing in yourself is the key to unlocking your full potential and achieving great success in life. However, self-doubt and fear of failure can hold you back from realising your true potential. If you want to achieve more in your life, you need to learn how to back yourself more. Here are some tips to help you do just that:

  1. Believe in Yourself

The first step in backing yourself is to believe in yourself. You need to have confidence in your abilities and trust that you have what it takes to achieve your goals. This means that you should focus on your strengths and positive attributes and not let your weaknesses hold you back.

  1. Set Realistic Goals

The next step is to set realistic goals that are achievable. You need to break down your larger goals into smaller, more manageable tasks. This will help you to feel more in control and will give you a sense of accomplishment as you complete each task.

  1. Take Action

Once you have set your goals, it’s time to take action. This means that you need to be proactive and take steps to achieve your goals. This may involve learning new skills, networking, or taking on new challenges. Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and try new things.

  1. Embrace Failure

Failure is a natural part of the learning process, and it’s essential to embrace it if you want to back yourself more. Don’t let failure hold you back or make you feel defeated. Instead, use it as an opportunity to learn from your mistakes and grow stronger. Remember, every successful person has experienced failure at some point.

  1. Surround Yourself with Positive People

Surrounding yourself with positive, supportive people is crucial if you want to back yourself more. These people will encourage you, give you constructive feedback, and help you to stay motivated. On the other hand, negative people can drain your energy and hold you back.

  1. Celebrate Your Successes

Finally, it’s important to celebrate your successes, no matter how small they may be. This will help to boost your confidence and motivate you to continue working towards your goals. Celebrating your successes also helps you to recognise your progress and can help you to stay focused on the bigger picture.

Backing yourself more is essential if you want to achieve more in your life. You need to believe in yourself, set realistic goals, take action, embrace failure, surround yourself with positive people, and celebrate your successes. By following these tips, you’ll be well on your way to achieving your goals and realizing your full potential. Remember, the only person who can hold you back is yourself, so back yourself, and the sky’s the limit!

Good Vibes

Good vibes are a positive feeling or atmosphere. They can be created by people, places, or things. Good vibes can make us feel happy, relaxed, and optimistic. They can also help us to connect with others and to feel more connected to the world around us.

There are many things that we can do to create good vibes in our lives. Some of these things include:

  • Surround ourselves with positive people
  • Spend time in nature
  • Listen to music that makes us happy
  • Do things that we enjoy
  • Help others
  • Practice gratitude
  • Be kind to ourselves and others

Good vibes are contagious. When we surround ourselves with good vibes, we are more likely to feel good ourselves. We can also help to spread good vibes to others by being positive and kind.

I hope you have a day filled with good vibes!

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