Sobriety Diary Over 55 Years Old

Observing the good and bad of sobriety

Over 55 Sobriety Journey 

I’ve tried to tread this path before. Not entirely seriously or with deliberate endeavour. However, I know it is the best thing for me. I just haven’t had the single-minded objectiveness till now. To help me complete the journey, and to look back at where I’ve come from, I thought I would journal my trip that has no final destination in my lifetime. With the exception of death, I can’t say I have completed the sobriety journey, but where else on my journey to alcohol-free death will my sobriety journey take me for the rest of my life?

FIRST 2 WEEKS OF SOBRIETY

I’ve been here before. The longest to date without drinking is around five months. That, so far, is a echoed in my first two weeks of my sobriety journey. Essentially for the first two weeks or so I just have to get through it any way I can. If that means eating more sweets than is healthy – I’ll do it. If it means i have to just slob out – I’ll do it. If it means I have to withdraw from doing things I normally enjoy – I’ll do it. There is no right or wrong except making an excuse to have just one drink thinking it’s a small cheat. That is cheating myself big time. Living an unhealthy lifestyle for a couple of weeks is not ideal but I don’t try to be perfect. My longer game benefits from stopping drinking will make up for a couple of weeks of downtime. The first moment I wake up feeling amazing instead of dull lacklustre or empty is the best feeling in the world bar none – and I mean none! The free high you experience that morning, I must try to remember and be grateful for. Gratitude is the key to happiness. 

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The first couple of weeks is always a de-pickling of the brain for me! I have had lots of periods which I have refrained from drinking alcohol. The first couple of weeks has always involved a physical change in the brain and a short period of mental numbness. Physical change claim, I am not a doctor, may or may not be true. There certainly seems to be what I call brain shrinkage. My brain seems to physically gurgle as it unsticks itself from my skull! This is why my medically untrained mind guesses that it is my brain shrinking due to the lack of alcohol? FYI, I do not intend to explore the physics or science behind my sobriety journey. It is my experience of the journey that I am journaling, not the medical facts of my sobriety journey.

I am only still sober one hour at a time. Maintaining sobriety is sometimes about not having a drink in the next 5 minutes never mind the next hour, day or month.

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I wouldn’t say I have failed before. I have never promised myself I would never have another drink before. I have had an aspiration before to not drink ever again. However having an aspiration is different from an objective. This sobriety journey is now a key goal in my life. Previously, the periods of not drinking have always come to an end before I died. This time, my goal is to die before I have another drink!

Sobriety is not my only goal. It will be a key part of totally changing my life. I need the clarity of thought that comes with sobriety to be of sharp mind when making dynamic lifestyle decisions. From my previous episodes of giving up drinking, I know that not drinking sharpens the mind. That benefit as always in the past been surrendered when I returned to drinking again. Even although previously sobriety was not the objective, I knew in my own mind that drinking again was a mistake if I wanted to live the best life I can live. So the return to drinking was always with immediate joy and delight from the alcohol high hit, shortly followed by different levels of regret, disappointment in myself and even sometimes shame. I’ve always known in the past what my best life involved and that doesn’t include drinking alcohol. In the past I have made different excuses to drink again, but this time I will have no excuses. This sobriety journey is a definite life goal. This time if I drink I will have failed.

This sobriety journey will encompass a total change of life. If there is such a thing as a wrong decision, then my clarity of thought that definitely comes with every period of alcohol abstinence, will be crucial to my new radical lifestyle changes. My first 2 weeks of being alcohol-free has come to an end with the usual glorious couple of mornings when I wake up incredibly happy. An overwhelming feeling of happiness burns inside my belly. It is not a smug joy. It is not a self-satisfied or selfish joy. It’s simply my mind discovering that my body has completed its first stage of repairing my brain. My brain is signalling it has recovered from the toxic abuse I have put it through most of my life. My brain is saying thank you. At last it can work again unhindered by the chemicals from alcohol inhibiting my minds ability to think properly. 

When I awake in the morning I am immediately aware of how happy I am. It is important for me not to get up. This moment is to be savoured. It will be the best moment of my day. I must spend a few minutes being even more aware mindful and grateful for this feeling of joy and delight to be alive today. I breathe more deeply slowly and deliberately through my nose only whilst observing all my senses more acutely to heighten the high I am now experiencing. I am now aware my nose is unblocked even though I did not know my nose was blocked over the last weeks months and perhaps years. More air is rushing to my lungs and my brain is lapping up the new boost of oxygen. Gradually sometimes immediately I am aware of new ideas of what to do today tomorrow and the rest of my life. Ideas I may  not know I was even thinking about before or ideas of how to solve problems I was struggling with yesterday. I know I need to dictate these ideas or writing them down type them into my phone so I do not forget these gems that have come into my life today. Without trying without asking without even needing, the universe has found the next steps to a better life specific to my life. I think the absence of alcohol over the last couple of weeks has deepened my sleep pattern. My brain has had a chance to rejuvenate, repair itself and understand what happened yesterday the day before or last year. My brain better understands what I want in life, and has mapped out what I need to do today tomorrow and the rest of my life but has only given me a few of the next steps I need to take. I am not greedy so I do not try to force these next baby steps into a full lifestyle plan and take them for what they are without trying to complete a jigsaw of my life. I need to be grateful for the little steps given during the night. Tomorrow I may be fortunate enough to receive more insight into how to change my life for the better, but for the moment I am just ecstatic that I have been placed with acute happiness. Not only have I woken up happier, I know what to do today to have a great day.

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Reaching this stage should be enough for me to never drink alcohol again. The payoff of not drinking is huge mentally and physically, but I know the demons within me are just resting. They are waiting for the right time to obscure the benefits of not drinking. If I am to complete my sobriety journey I will have to be more alert to the moments that will trip me up and end my sobriety journey. In the past I have not always failed to navigate the demons that dragged me back into a mediocre life. On at least one occasion I set out on the not drinking path without a a clear destination. Along the way, I picked a clear destination in terms of months ahead where I would drink – a planned holiday. I didn’t want to go on holiday and not drink. This helped to keep me on the path of not drinking but ultimately was a self defeating goal to set for myself. Mission completed with me drinking again! This time it’s different. My mission will only be completed if I never drink again. Why don’t you come along for the ride.

THIRD WEEK

Every day of not drinking in the third week has been better than any day of drinking.

The third week this time around is different from the third week on previous sobriety projects. On previous projects to remain sober, the third week was a lot harder. On reflection it is easier this time because my sobriety journey this time is to never drink again, as opposed to not drink for as long as possible, or not drink for a defined period.

If you are remaining sober for as long as possible, you are not sure when it is okay to have a drink or not. In the past I have given myself a pass or time-out. If you are aiming to never drink again, then obviously there is no day upon which it is okay to have a drink. Strangely, this time around it is easier to not drink in the third week now I have set the goal of never drinking again. Giving myself the clear unambiguous goal of forever stopping drinking has made it crystal clear what is and what is not acceptable. Knowing what failure looks like this time is obvious so as totally eliminated the option of having a cheeky drink and restarting the clock on my next sobriety timer project. The “I’ll do better next time” mentality.

What is consistent in the third week is the amount of extra energy I have. Boundless extra energy is one of the major gifts of sobriety. I can and do do so much more than any week I have had even a single drink. My focus on my life without a drink in it enables me to be hyper productive. Being more productive does not make me more successful this week but hopefully I will be more successful in life in future as well as sober. What success in life looks like is for me to determine – no one else. Success this far at not drinking is both a blessing and a potential trap. It can, if you allow it, present an opportunity to have a drink to celebrate! I’ve earned it! However, this time I have combined my sobriety journey with other major life change projects. These other projects soak up the extra time and energy I have from not drinking and make giving up drinking even more rewarding for me. The extra energy will not be wasted this time.

I think it is a good idea to have a clear plan of what I am going to do with the rest of my life. I can then invest the extra energy derived from not drinking to achieve more in my life than just sobriety. Even if my plan is a little more vague and uncertain than many would have, I at least have a vague idea of what a better life looks like for me. My life, like most perhaps, does not enable me to just do what I want. I have to have alternative routes loosely imagined or envisioned so that if life does not give me the opportunity I think is best for me or anticipated by me I can at least use plan B,C or D to find my way to my end destination or at least a new destination that is as equally satisfying and rewarding.

If I was just being sober for a set period, then it is best for me to have a full day. By this I mean I need distractions. Activities – distractions – help me to avoid creating opportunities for drinking and could include walking, cycling or doing a hobby. Whatever takes my mind and free time off drinking. However, as my plan is to be sober for the rest of my life, I feel I really need to capitalise on the gift of extra energy to really embroider upon the obvious health benefits of being sober. In my case, I am investing the extra energy into a more serious approach to my business ideas including the creation of more income.

This week I have made the mistake of not going to bed earlier. By earlier I mean 9 to 10pm in the evening. It has resulted in me still waking early in the morning absolutely refreshed, but flagging in mid to late afternoon. In my semi-retirement, I am lucky that I have the option of having a nap. but this for me can be lethal in terms of disrupting my enjoyment of life. I find it better to push through and not nap if I can, but sometimes a nap is the best option as it can give a little boost.

This does depend on whether you are a night person or a morning person. Going to bed between 9 and 10pm is the optimal time for me but I do recommend going to bed at same time every single night and your body should adjust to wake you up at same time every morning without an alarm clock. The benefit of this is that your body is more balanced if you have consistent lifestyle pattern, in my experience.

A peculiar thing I have found from my bouts of not drinking is that the odd days can be harder than the evens! 1,3,5 etc have been harder than 2,4, 6 etc days. I have absolutely no explanation for this. It is however worth noting that some days are harder than others for absolutely no reason whatsoever. I think it wise simply to accept this rather than search for reasons or lessons.

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In addition, life can get in the way of best laid plans. A birthday, works event or some other social occasion create opportunities to make excuses to have a drink. Navigating past these pitfalls is perhaps the hardest part of a change to sobriety. I need to have a plan for such threats of failure. Soft drinks or alcohol-free drinks work for some but not giving a damn what others think of you is the best plan. This involves me not drinking anything at all. After the first couple of drinks rounds have passed I realise I can not only cope but enjoy alcohol-free socialising. After the adrenaline on arrival subsides I love the dawning of the fact that I really don’t need to drink alcohol to enjoy myself. There does come a time after half a dozen drinks that you become detached from from your drunk companions. They are on a different mission from me. I can’t go with them. I have to pick a time to leave early. The feeling of leaving early becomes a relief or even elation not sadness. I don’t have FOMO any more. Remembering how good I am going to feel tomorrow is reward for leaving early.

FOURTH WEEK

My fourth week was a strange week. An unasked review of my life. Happy to live in present, I found my mind wandering off on its own to the past.

I had not set out on my sobriety journey to discover were things had gone wrong in my life. Where I was four weeks ago in my life was quietly happy with the exception of my drinking habit. I knew back then drinking did not provide a nett benefit to my enjoyment of my life. Strange therefore that my mind repeatedly wandered off into the past to look at my life differently via new unglazed goggles.

Turns out my successes in the past may not have been successes and my failures have been my successes. Furthermore, I think now that drinking has never made my highs better and always played some role in my lows. I used alcohol to try to feel part of the perceived in-crowd or part of the team or even just part of the perceived best things in the world. I think I wanted to merge-in instead of trying to be extraordinary.

Alcohol didn’t help me merge-in. It made me zone-out. The numbness to life under the effects of alcohol wasn’t a good thing. At times I needed to feel numb, not to feel more alive. I know now that living life alcohol-free makes me feel so much more alive. In the bad old days, most of my life, I mistakenly thought alcohol was good for me when in fact it was never good for me at any time. Happy and sad times were always negatively impacted or made worse with alcohol.

Now both my happy and and sad times are so much better experienced sober. Being sober does not make my life less troublesome. It does enable me to manage the good and bad better. Being sober does not make my life better. Being sober makes your appreciation of living better and gratitude for what I do have in my life more real. Being sober makes me happier, even if my life could be perceived as less attractive or unsuccessful.

The success of my life is measured better by me doing the analysis of me rather than concerning myself with other people’s assessment of my life. Having a clearer sober mind facilitates better more honest quicker trustworthy calculations by me. Being sober may not make me more successful in my lifetime, but it will enable me to love what does transpire in my life more.

Sobriety does not make me less ambitious. Sobriety makes me more confident and focused on my ability to make the right choices for the right reasons and that will make my assessment of my life better.

Another curious physical change I find during sobriety is what I call the physical drying-up sensation and unblocking of my nose and sinuses. I can breathe through my nose and sinuses. I can breathe through my nose more freely. Not sure what the medical reasoning may be for this, but each and every time I have stopped drinking for a period, this physical experience occurs!

FIRST TWO MONTHS SOBRIETY

The biggest gains physically and mentally come in the first month to 6 weeks. That’s when the biggest differences can be felt. Definitely, the decision to give up drinking forever makes it easier to give up drinking. A clear unequivocal commitment with no get-out clause helps me to set my mind on what is right and wrong.

The second month is easier than the first month. There is more at stake, more to waste, if I give up in the second month, by my desire to drink in the second month us is less.

There is a feeling of further clarity of thinking unencumbered by drink in the second month, it’s just not as obvious an improvement witnessed in the first month.

All-in-all this should monthly stoppers some encouragement. Those flirting with giving up for good. If you can do one month you can easily do two, etc. Furthermore, returning to drinking after a month off with a view of having another month off sometime in future is harder than giving up for good. The first month off seems to be the hardest.

Drink-free is more rewarding. More satisfying. My mind is more capable to appreciating my life. More grateful for what I have in my life. It can make the bad more raw, but it makes the good better. Not drinking gives me a more genuine experience of life. Sure alcohol can anesthetise the bad but it also anesthetise the good experiences.

Living a more real life without alcohol is my life now. Maybe it could be yours too. It’s not as hard to give up drinking if your mind is clear why you want to give up drinking.

Quit Alcohol: 10 Tips

Breaking Free from Alcohol: Expert Tips and Tricks

If you’re looking to give up alcohol, you’re not alone. Many people in the UK struggle with alcohol addiction and are looking for ways to quit. Here are the top 10 tips to help you give up alcohol:

  1. Set realistic goals: Set a target for how much you want to reduce your alcohol consumption and stick to it. Gradual reduction is often more achievable than quitting cold turkey.
  2. Find alternative activities: Find alternative ways to relax and socialise that don’t involve alcohol, such as exercise, hobbies, or spending time with friends and family.
  3. Avoid triggers: Identify situations that trigger your alcohol cravings and try to avoid them, such as certain bars or social events.
  4. Keep yourself busy: Stay busy with work, hobbies, and social activities to help distract you from alcohol cravings.
  5. Seek support: Find friends, family, or a support group who understand your struggle and can provide you with emotional support and encouragement.
  6. Keep track of your progress: Keep a diary of your alcohol consumption and take note of how you feel after you quit. This can help you stay motivated and see your progress.
  7. Try medication: Consider taking medication such as naltrexone, acamprosate, or disulfiram, which can help reduce alcohol cravings.
  8. Get professional help: Consult with a doctor or therapist who specialises in alcohol addiction. They can provide you with personalized support and treatment.
  9. Consider a rehabilitation program: If your alcohol addiction is severe, consider enrolling in a rehabilitation program where you can receive professional help and support.
  10. Remember why you want to quit: Keep in mind the reasons why you want to quit alcohol, such as improving your health, finances, or relationships. Use these reasons as motivation to stay sober.

Remember, quitting alcohol is a journey and it’s important to take it one day at a time. With patience, determination, and support, you can overcome alcohol addiction and lead a healthier, happier life.

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  9. The Path to Recovery: How to Give Up Alcohol for Good
  10. From Addiction to Abstinence: A Comprehensive Guide to Quitting Alcohol

From Addiction to Abstinence

Quitting alcohol can be a challenging but life-changing decision. Whether you’re struggling with addiction or simply looking to lead a healthier lifestyle, here’s a comprehensive guide to help you on your journey from addiction to abstinence.

Recognise the Problem: The first step in quitting alcohol is acknowledging that you have a problem. Be honest with yourself and evaluate the impact of alcohol on your life, including your health, relationships, work, and overall well-being. Accepting that you have a problem is an important starting point for change.

Set Clear Goals: Once you’ve recognised the problem, set clear and achievable goals for quitting alcohol. It’s important to define your reasons for quitting and what you hope to achieve by abstaining from alcohol. Whether it’s improved health, better relationships, or a more fulfilling life, having clear goals can provide you with motivation and direction.

Seek Support: Quitting alcohol can be challenging, and it’s important to have a support system in place. Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist who can provide emotional support and help you stay accountable. Consider joining a support group, such as Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), which provides a community of individuals who are also on the journey to sobriety.

Develop Coping Strategies: Alcohol often serves as a coping mechanism for dealing with stress, anxiety, or other emotions. When quitting alcohol, it’s important to develop healthy coping strategies to replace alcohol as a means of dealing with difficult emotions. This can include practicing relaxation techniques, engaging in physical exercise, journaling, or seeking professional help if needed.

Remove Triggers: Identify and remove triggers that tempt you to drink. This can include avoiding places, people, or situations that trigger cravings for alcohol. Make changes in your routine or lifestyle to minimise exposure to triggers, and create a supportive environment that promotes abstinence.

Create a Plan: Develop a plan for how to handle cravings or temptations. Have a list of alternative activities or distractions that you can turn to when cravings arise. Identify healthy outlets for stress or negative emotions, such as going for a walk, talking to a friend, or practicing mindfulness.

Take Care of Your Physical Health: Quitting alcohol can have physical effects on your body. Take care of your physical health by eating a balanced diet, staying hydrated, and getting regular exercise. Seek medical attention if you experience withdrawal symptoms, and be mindful of any underlying health conditions that may have been exacerbated by alcohol use.

Practice Self-Care: Sobriety is a journey of self-care. Take time to prioritise your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Engage in activities that bring you joy, practice self-compassion, and prioritise self-care as an essential part of your recovery journey.

Stay Accountable: Hold yourself accountable for your decision to quit alcohol. Keep track of your progress, celebrate your achievements, and learn from any setbacks. Surround yourself with supportive people who can help you stay accountable to your goals.

Create a New Life: Quitting alcohol is not just about giving up a habit, but also about creating a new, fulfilling life without alcohol. Explore new hobbies, discover healthy ways to have fun, and focus on building a meaningful and fulfilling life that aligns with your values.
Remember, quitting alcohol is a personal journey, and it’s important to be patient with yourself. Recovery is not always easy, and setbacks may happen along the way. But with determination, support, and a comprehensive plan, it is possible to overcome addiction and achieve a healthy, fulfilling life of abstinence. Seek professional help if needed, and remember that you are not alone. Recovery is possible, and you deserve a happy, healthy, and sober life.

Practice Relapse Prevention: Relapse is a common part of the recovery process, but it doesn’t have to be the end of your journey to abstinence. Learn to recognise triggers and warning signs of relapse, and have a plan in place for how to handle them. This can include reaching out to your support system, engaging in healthy coping strategies, and reminding yourself of your reasons for quitting alcohol.

Address Underlying Issues: Many individuals turn to alcohol as a way to cope with underlying emotional or mental health issues. As part of your journey to abstinence, it’s important to address these underlying issues through therapy, counseling, or other appropriate interventions. Understanding and addressing the root causes of your alcohol use can greatly enhance your chances of long-term abstinence.

Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness is a powerful tool that can help you stay present in the moment and manage cravings or triggers. Incorporate mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing, meditation, or mindfulness exercises, into your daily routine to help you stay grounded and focused on your recovery journey.

Build a Supportive Social Network: Surround yourself with supportive individuals who understand and respect your decision to quit alcohol. Build a social network that encourages and supports your sobriety. This can include attending support group meetings, connecting with sober friends, or engaging in activities that do not revolve around alcohol.

Take it One Day at a Time: Recovery is a process that requires patience and persistence. Focus on taking it one day at a time, and celebrate each day of sobriety as a significant accomplishment. Avoid overwhelming yourself with thoughts of the future, and instead, stay focused on the present moment and the progress you are making.

Practice Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your journey, your emotions, and your progress. Journaling, therapy, or self-reflection exercises can help you gain insight into your triggers, emotions, and patterns of behaviour. Understanding yourself better can empower you to make positive changes and stay committed to your goal of abstinence.

Celebrate Milestones: Celebrate your milestones along the way. Whether it’s a week, a month, a year, or more of sobriety, acknowledge and celebrate your achievements. Treat yourself to something special, share your success with your support system, and take pride in your progress.

Stay Committed to Self-Care: Self-care is crucial in recovery. Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental health by getting enough sleep, eating well, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Prioritise self-care as a non-negotiable part of your daily routine to support your overall well-being and resilience in your recovery journey.

Stay Positive and Patient: Recovery from alcohol addiction is a challenging process that requires time and effort. It’s important to stay positive and patient with yourself as you navigate the ups and downs of the journey. Be kind to yourself, practice self-compassion, and remember that change takes time.

Stay Committed to Your Goals: Finally, stay committed to your goals of abstinence from alcohol. Remind yourself of your reasons for quitting, and stay focused on the positive changes that sobriety can bring to your life. Surround yourself with reminders of your commitment, such as affirmations, notes, or symbols, and stay determined in your pursuit of a healthy, alcohol-free life.
Quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence is a challenging but rewarding journey. It requires dedication, self-reflection, and support from others. Remember to be kind to yourself, seek help when needed, and stay committed to your goals. With determination, support, and a comprehensive plan in place, you can successfully overcome alcohol addiction and achieve a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling life of abstinence

Seek Professional Help: If you find yourself struggling with quitting alcohol or maintaining abstinence despite your best efforts, don’t hesitate to seek professional help. Addiction counsellors, therapists, or medical professionals can provide additional support, guidance, and resources to aid you in your recovery journey. They can also help you address any underlying mental health issues that may be contributing to your alcohol use.

Create a Relapse Prevention Plan: A relapse prevention plan is a crucial tool in maintaining abstinence. Work with your counselor or therapist to create a personalised plan that includes strategies to identify and manage triggers, coping skills to deal with cravings, and a plan of action if a relapse occurs. Having a plan in place can help you stay proactive in preventing relapse and staying on track with your recovery goals.

Build a Healthy Lifestyle: Engage in healthy lifestyle choices that support your recovery. This can include regular exercise, a nutritious diet, and adequate sleep. Taking care of your physical health can help you feel better overall and reduce the risk of relapse.

Develop Healthy Coping Skills: Alcohol may have been your previous coping mechanism, but it’s important to develop healthy coping skills that can help you manage stress, emotions, and triggers in a positive way. This can include mindfulness, deep breathing, exercise, hobbies, or talking to a trusted friend or family member.

Learn from Relapses: Relapses can happen in the recovery process, but it’s essential to view them as learning opportunities rather than failures. If you do experience a relapse, take the time to reflect on the triggers and circumstances that led to it, and use it as an opportunity to reassess and strengthen your recovery plan.

Practice Assertiveness: Learning to say no and set boundaries is crucial in maintaining abstinence. Practice assertiveness skills to communicate your needs, assert your boundaries, and avoid situations that may trigger your alcohol use. Surround yourself with individuals who respect and support your decision to abstain from alcohol.

Find Healthy Ways to Have Fun: Alcohol may have been associated with socialising and having fun in the past, but it’s important to find healthy ways to enjoy yourself without alcohol. Discover new hobbies, engage in activities that bring you joy, and build a fulfilling and enjoyable life without the need for alcohol.

Stay Mindful of High-Risk Situations: Be aware of high-risk situations that may trigger your alcohol use, such as parties, social events, or stressful situations. Have a plan in place to manage these situations, such as bringing a sober friend with you, having an exit strategy, or using healthy coping skills to manage cravings.

Practice Self-Compassion: Recovery is a challenging process, and it’s important to be kind to yourself along the way. Practice self-compassion, forgive yourself for past mistakes, and be patient with yourself as you navigate the ups and downs of recovery. Treat yourself with the same love and care you would offer to a friend in a similar situation.

Stay Committed to Your Sobriety: Finally, stay committed to your sobriety and make it a priority in your life. Surround yourself with a supportive network, continue to engage in healthy coping strategies, and seek help when needed. Remember that recovery is a lifelong journey, and staying committed to your sobriety is essential for maintaining abstinence from alcohol.
Quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence is a courageous and transformative journey. It may come with challenges, but with perseverance, self-care, support, and a comprehensive plan in place, it is possible to achieve and maintain a fulfilling life of sobriety. Remember to be patient, kind to yourself, and seek professional help when needed. You are capable of overcoming alcohol addiction and living a healthier, happier, and more fulfilled life without alcohol. Celebrate your progress and achievements along the way, and remember that every step towards sobriety is a step towards a brighter future.

In conclusion, quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence requires commitment, effort, and support. It’s important to have a plan in place, seek professional help when needed, and prioritize self-care and healthy coping skills. With determination, resilience, and a supportive network, you can overcome alcohol addiction and lead a fulfilling life in recovery. You deserve a life free from the negative impacts of alcohol, and you are capable of achieving and maintaining abstinence. Take it one day at a time, stay focused on your goals, and never give up on your journey towards lasting sobriety.

Remember, if you or someone you know is struggling with alcohol addiction, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. There are many resources available, including addiction counselors, therapists, support groups, and treatment centers that can provide the necessary support and guidance. You are not alone, and recovery is possible. Take the first step towards a healthier, happier life by seeking help and taking action towards quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence. You deserve a brighter future, and it’s never too late to start your journey towards recovery.

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What is the only thing you can control in life?

What areas of your life do you have control over?

How to let go of things you can’t control

You don’t control how other people respond to you. Why waste your time trying. Having control over your life is important to access the happiness, health and wealth you want for yourself, but trying to control the outcomes of something you have no control over will only guarantee you will be stressed out. The stress will not change the outcomes in future, only destroy the time you have now.

If you let go of your need to control everything in your life, you will enable you to lead a happier richer life now. Focusing on controlling the things you can control will mean you can more efficiently achieve what you want for your lifestyle.

How you react to people and life events is the only thing you can control.

You are responsible and accountable for holding yourself back. People and events can have negative impact on your life but they can’t hold you back from your destiny. Only you can limit your end destination in life.

Unexpected negative outcomes in your life can be perceived as events designed to keep you on track for your destiny. Be grateful they happened. Most of the things that happen in our life, good or bad, are rarely prevented by worrying about them before hand. Trying to accept them as part of your destiny makes bad things easier to deal with and good things more enjoyable. Being more grateful for both the bad and the good will make you happier than if you recoiled in frustration at your bad luck.

It is exhausting trying to control situations or people; and incredibly frustrating when the outcomes rarely match our expectations based on effort expended.

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Freedom from the stress of your life events or outcomes does not mean you are simply floating free on the sea of life. You remain responsible and accountable for both how you react to people or events; and how you control the things you are able to control in your life.

If you expect your life to be good by chance, you are taking a big risk it will not be as good as it could be. If you are happy taking that risk then great. If not, now is the time to focus your time money and energy on the things you can control in your life.

Its your responsibility to choose where you want to end up in tour life

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Know what you want in your life and do something every day for yourself and others to help you get where you want to be. Helping others to have an easier better life will help you enjoy your life more.

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Empowering Your Journey: Mastering Self-Control to Take Charge of Your Life

In a world filled with constant distractions and external influences, regaining control of our lives has become more crucial than ever. The ability to steer our thoughts, actions, and decisions towards our goals and values is a powerful skill known as self-control. By harnessing this innate ability, we can shape our destinies, overcome challenges, and lead a fulfilling life. This article explores the concept of self-control and provides practical strategies to help you take charge of your life.

Understanding Self-Control

Self-control refers to the ability to regulate and manage our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors in alignment with our long-term goals and values. It enables us to resist immediate gratification, make sound decisions, and persevere through obstacles. It empowers us to break free from impulsive tendencies and make conscious choices that lead to personal growth and success.

Cultivating Self-Awareness

Self-awareness is the cornerstone of self-control. To take control of your life, it is essential to develop a deep understanding of your thoughts, emotions, and patterns of behaviour. Practicing mindfulness, journaling, and seeking feedback from trusted individuals can enhance self-awareness. By recognising your triggers, temptations, and habitual responses, you can begin to gain control over them.

Setting Clear Goals

Setting clear and meaningful goals provides a sense of direction and purpose. When you define your goals, ensure they are specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART). These goals act as a roadmap, helping you prioritise your efforts and make choices that align with your desired outcomes. Regularly review and refine your goals to stay on track and adjust them as circumstances change.

Building Willpower

Willpower is the fuel that drives self-control. Like a muscle, it can be strengthened through deliberate practice and consistent effort. Engage in activities that require self-discipline, such as regular exercise, maintaining a healthy diet, or learning a new skill. Start small and gradually increase the difficulty to avoid overwhelming yourself. By challenging your self-imposed limitations, you’ll build resilience and enhance your willpower.

Managing Time Effectively

Time is a precious resource, and managing it efficiently is crucial for taking control of your life. Prioritise tasks based on their importance and urgency using techniques like Eisenhower’s Urgent/Important Matrix. Practice effective time management strategies, such as creating schedules, setting deadlines, and minimising distractions. By optimising your time, you’ll accomplish more and have greater control over your daily activities.

Developing Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence is the ability to recognize and understand emotions—both your own and those of others—and use that understanding to guide your thoughts and actions. Developing emotional intelligence enables you to manage stress, resolve conflicts, and make empathetic decisions. Cultivate emotional intelligence by practicing active listening, empathy, and emotional regulation techniques.

Overcoming Procrastination

Procrastination is a common obstacle that hinders self-control. To overcome it, break tasks into smaller, manageable chunks, establish deadlines, and create a supportive environment. Use productivity techniques like the Pomodoro Technique to work in focused bursts, taking short breaks in between. Developing a growth mindset and embracing the concept of progress over perfection can also help you combat procrastination.

Building a Supportive Network

Surrounding yourself with positive, supportive individuals who share your values and vision is crucial for maintaining self-control and taking charge of your life. Build a network of like-minded friends, mentors, or accountability partners who can provide encouragement, guidance, and constructive feedback. Engage in meaningful conversations, share your goals and aspirations, and seek support during challenging times. A supportive network not only holds you accountable but also inspires and motivates you to stay on track.

Practicing Self-Care

Self-care is essential for maintaining physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Prioritise activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul. Engage in regular exercise, get enough sleep, eat nutritious meals, and make time for relaxation and leisure. Set boundaries to protect your energy and avoid burnout. By taking care of yourself, you’ll enhance your self-control and be better equipped to handle life’s demands.

Embracing Failure and Learning from Mistakes

Failure and mistakes are inevitable parts of life. Instead of viewing them as setbacks, embrace them as opportunities for growth and learning. Analyse your failures objectively, identify lessons learned, and use that knowledge to improve your future decisions and actions. Adopt a growth mindset that sees failure as a stepping stone towards success. By reframing your perspective, you’ll develop resilience and strengthen your self-control.

Staying Committed to Personal Growth

Self-control is an ongoing journey, and staying committed to personal growth is crucial. Continuously seek opportunities for self-improvement and self-reflection. Engage in lifelong learning, read books, attend workshops, or take up new hobbies that challenge you. Regularly evaluate your progress, celebrate achievements, and reassess your goals to ensure they align with your evolving aspirations. By maintaining a growth mindset and dedicating yourself to personal development, you’ll have greater control over your life.

Taking control of your life requires a combination of self-awareness, discipline, and conscious decision-making. By cultivating self-control and implementing the strategies outlined in this article, you can empower yourself to navigate through life’s challenges, overcome obstacles, and create a meaningful and fulfilling life aligned with your values and aspirations. Remember, self-control is a skill that can be honed and strengthened over time. Embrace the journey, be patient with yourself, and never underestimate the power you possess to shape your own destiny. Start today and take the first step towards a life of purpose, fulfillment, and self-mastery.

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I just wanna go home but nowhere seems like home to me. Do you connect with this feeling? What are you going to do about it? What can you do about it? You can be happy and have this feeling but you can’t be content with your life?

If this feeling sounds like a bit of you, don’t doubt yourself. Use it as a catalyst to change your life for the better. Keep an open mind and remember to connect with others to talk through tour feelings if it will help bring clarity to your life decisions. Depression is a medical condition and we don’t offer medical advice. If you feel depressed you should seek medical advice asap.

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You have to find your purpose in life. 99 percent of people have a simple purpose. Only 1 percent are destined to save the world. Of that 1 percent most do the opposite unintentionally!

Most peoples life from the outside is pointless. Their existence on this planet to others is or was pointless. What others think of your life is not your problem. Your problem in your life is to solve why you are here and what you are going to do to be content with your life.

When is your life enough for you?

  • When will you have enough money?
  • When will you have enough friends?
  • When will you have enough people liking you?

It’s not for other people to determine that. That is your job in life. Remember however, that if you are what you think other people think of you and not what you think of you, you will never be happy with your life. You will always be second-guessing what others think of you.

  • Normally you will be wrong about what other people think of you.
  • If you are right about what other people think of you, it is unlikely you will be able to change their mind what they think so you will always be unhappy with them and yourself
  • If you are wrong about what other people think of you, it is unlikely you will find that out but you will have wasted your life trying to change someones mind to like you when they already do like you

You see you are living a fools life even caring what other people think of you. What you have to do to feel content with your life, feel like you are home, is to like yourself. If you don’t like yourself you need to change that and only that. Knowing what to change is really up to you.

  • First of all you need to be clear what you want in your life, not just what you do want in your life
  • Secondly, you need to do at least one thing every single day that will make your life better that day or will make your life better in future. Don’t assume the stereotypical things representing a good life are is the best life for you. For example, life by the beach maybe one persons dream could be hell for someone who wants to make more money every day till they drop dead
  • Thirdly, you need to be consistent. At best your actions will create tiny improvement to your life. If you don’t do something every day to improve your life then your life will not get better. No one is going to come into your life and make it better. Only you can make your life better each day

Yes what you think will make your life better will change. Living your best life plan is like every single plan in life or business. No plan works in practice. Life changes the best laid life plan! However, you have to know what will make your life better each day and then do something that day – not tomorrow – that will make your life better.

One day near the end of your life you will realise that your effort each day to be a better person – for you – will have worked – for you. You might arrive at a totally different destination from where you thought you would when you set out. That is unimportant. What’s important is that you led the best life you could. You will feel content with your effort. You will feel you have arrived home.

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It does not matter what life events you suffer as it is how you react to those events that will determine your level of happiness. Life events will not make you unhappy, it is your response to those events that will determine your medium to long term happiness. You persons personal existential crisis is the next persons personal challenge to overcome. Being more positive about unwanted events can stop a spiral of despair from which it will be harder to recover and prosper.

Happiness with your life is not about what happens to you. Its about how you react. We can chose how to react. That is not to say it is easy to react. It just means we have the option to react badly or better. You are in control of how you think at any one time and you can only think about one things at a time.

It is about controlling how you think about the things that are in your life right now. If you control how you think about your life at every moment of time then you can control if you are happy or not. We can control how we react. Life is how you react to events. Life problems are not the problem. Your reaction to your problems is the problem with your life.

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Living an easy life is something that many people aspire to, but it can be difficult to achieve. The fast-paced world we live in can make it challenging to find the time and energy to relax and enjoy life. However, with the right mindset and a few lifestyle changes, it is possible to create a more relaxed and fulfilling lifestyle. In this article, we will explore some tips and strategies for living an easy life in the UK.

Prioritise self-care
Self-care is essential for living an easy life. Taking care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally is crucial for maintaining good health and wellbeing. Self-care activities can include anything from taking a relaxing bath, getting a massage, practicing meditation or yoga, or simply taking a walk in nature.

Self-care should be a regular part of your routine, not just something you do when you are feeling stressed or overwhelmed. By prioritising self-care, you can improve your mood, reduce stress, and feel more energised and productive throughout the day.

Simplify your life
One of the biggest obstacles to living an easy life is clutter and complexity. Simplifying your life can help you feel more relaxed and focused, allowing you to enjoy the things that matter most. Some ways to simplify your life include:

  • Decluttering your home: Getting rid of excess stuff and organising your living space can help reduce stress and improve your mental clarity.
  • Saying no to unnecessary commitments: Sometimes, saying no to things that don’t align with your values or priorities can be the best way to simplify your life.
  • Unplugging from technology: While technology can be helpful, it can also be a source of stress and distraction. Taking a break from screens and social media can help you feel more present and focused on the moment.

Create a positive mindset
Your mindset can have a big impact on your overall happiness and wellbeing. Cultivating a positive mindset can help you overcome challenges, stay motivated, and enjoy life more fully. Here are a few ways to create a positive mindset:

  • Practice gratitude: Focusing on what you are grateful for can help you appreciate the good things in life and stay positive.
  • Surround yourself with positive people: Being around people who uplift and support you can help you maintain a positive attitude.
  • Focus on solutions: When faced with a problem, focus on finding solutions rather than dwelling on the negative.

Make time for hobbies and passions
Engaging in hobbies and passions can be a great way to relax and enjoy life. Whether it’s reading, gardening, painting, or playing a sport, pursuing activities you enjoy can help reduce stress and increase happiness. Try to make time for your hobbies and passions regularly, even if it’s just a few minutes each day.

Prioritise rest and relaxation
Rest and relaxation are essential for maintaining good health and wellbeing. Making time for rest and relaxation can help you recharge and feel more energised and focused. Some ways to prioritise rest and relaxation include:

  • Getting enough sleep: Aim for at least 7-8 hours of sleep each night to help your body and mind recharge.
  • Taking breaks throughout the day: Taking short breaks throughout the day can help you feel more relaxed and focused.
  • Practicing mindfulness: Mindfulness practices like meditation or deep breathing can help you relax and reduce stress.

Build meaningful connections
Building meaningful connections with others is essential for living an easy life. Social connections can help you feel supported, connected, and happier overall. Here are a few ways to build meaningful connections:

  • Spend time with loved ones: Whether it’s family, friends, or a significant other, spending time with people you care about can help you feel more connected and supported.
  • Join a community group: Joining a group with shared interests can help you meet new people and build a sense of belonging and purpose.
  • Volunteer: Volunteering can be a great way to meet new people while giving back to your community.

Practice work-life balance
Achieving a healthy work-life balance is essential for living an easy life. When you are able to balance work and leisure time effectively, you can avoid burnout and feel more fulfilled overall.

Here are some tips for achieving work-life balance:

  • Set boundaries: Set clear boundaries around your work hours and avoid checking emails or doing work-related tasks outside of those hours.
  • Prioritise leisure time: Make sure to prioritise leisure time and engage in activities that help you relax and recharge.
  • Take breaks: Taking short breaks throughout the workday can help you stay energised and focused.

Living an easy life in the UK is achievable with the right mindset and lifestyle changes. By prioritising self-care, simplifying your life, cultivating a positive mindset, pursuing hobbies and passions, prioritising rest and relaxation, building meaningful connections, and practicing work-life balance, you can create a more relaxed and fulfilling lifestyle. Remember that small changes can add up to big results, so start implementing these strategies today to live your best life.

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Positive thinking is not really about eliminating bad or poor thoughts. Positivity is about developing a personal expectation that you are worth good things happening in your life. You should think good thoughts about yourself so that you attract good things into your life. This doesn’t mean you will be happy all the time or that only good things will happen to you. It simply means you send out positive vibes or messages so that you attract good things into your life today and with gratitude for what you do already have in your life, maybe better things in your life tomorrow.

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Believing in yourself is the key to unlocking your full potential and achieving great success in life. However, self-doubt and fear of failure can hold you back from realising your true potential. If you want to achieve more in your life, you need to learn how to back yourself more. Here are some tips to help you do just that:

  1. Believe in Yourself

The first step in backing yourself is to believe in yourself. You need to have confidence in your abilities and trust that you have what it takes to achieve your goals. This means that you should focus on your strengths and positive attributes and not let your weaknesses hold you back.

  1. Set Realistic Goals

The next step is to set realistic goals that are achievable. You need to break down your larger goals into smaller, more manageable tasks. This will help you to feel more in control and will give you a sense of accomplishment as you complete each task.

  1. Take Action

Once you have set your goals, it’s time to take action. This means that you need to be proactive and take steps to achieve your goals. This may involve learning new skills, networking, or taking on new challenges. Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and try new things.

  1. Embrace Failure

Failure is a natural part of the learning process, and it’s essential to embrace it if you want to back yourself more. Don’t let failure hold you back or make you feel defeated. Instead, use it as an opportunity to learn from your mistakes and grow stronger. Remember, every successful person has experienced failure at some point.

  1. Surround Yourself with Positive People

Surrounding yourself with positive, supportive people is crucial if you want to back yourself more. These people will encourage you, give you constructive feedback, and help you to stay motivated. On the other hand, negative people can drain your energy and hold you back.

  1. Celebrate Your Successes

Finally, it’s important to celebrate your successes, no matter how small they may be. This will help to boost your confidence and motivate you to continue working towards your goals. Celebrating your successes also helps you to recognise your progress and can help you to stay focused on the bigger picture.

Backing yourself more is essential if you want to achieve more in your life. You need to believe in yourself, set realistic goals, take action, embrace failure, surround yourself with positive people, and celebrate your successes. By following these tips, you’ll be well on your way to achieving your goals and realizing your full potential. Remember, the only person who can hold you back is yourself, so back yourself, and the sky’s the limit!

Good Vibes

Good vibes are a positive feeling or atmosphere. They can be created by people, places, or things. Good vibes can make us feel happy, relaxed, and optimistic. They can also help us to connect with others and to feel more connected to the world around us.

There are many things that we can do to create good vibes in our lives. Some of these things include:

  • Surround ourselves with positive people
  • Spend time in nature
  • Listen to music that makes us happy
  • Do things that we enjoy
  • Help others
  • Practice gratitude
  • Be kind to ourselves and others

Good vibes are contagious. When we surround ourselves with good vibes, we are more likely to feel good ourselves. We can also help to spread good vibes to others by being positive and kind.

I hope you have a day filled with good vibes!

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If you want to live your best life, getting enough quality sleep, eating a healthy diet, and staying physically active are all important. In this article, we will discuss some tips for optimising your sleep, nutrition, and exercise to help you feel your best and achieve your goals.

First, let’s talk about sleep. Getting enough sleep is essential for both your physical and mental health. Lack of sleep can lead to a range of problems, from poor concentration and memory to an increased risk of chronic diseases like heart disease and diabetes. To get the best sleep possible, here are a few tips:

  1. Create a relaxing bedtime routine. This can include activities like taking a warm bath, reading a book, or listening to calming music.
  2. Make your sleep environment conducive to sleep. This means keeping your bedroom cool, dark, and quiet, and using comfortable bedding.
  3. Avoid caffeine, alcohol, and heavy meals before bedtime. These can interfere with your ability to fall asleep and stay asleep.
  4. Try to go to bed at the same time each night and wake up at the same time each morning. This will help regulate your body’s internal clock.

It’s important to get enough sleep – typically 7-9 hours for adults – to help your body and mind rest and recharge.

Next, let’s talk about nutrition. Eating a balanced diet is essential for good health. A healthy diet should include a variety of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, and healthy fats. Here are a few tips for eating well:

  1. Plan your meals ahead of time. This can help you make healthier choices and avoid reaching for unhealthy snacks.
  2. Choose whole, unprocessed foods whenever possible. These are generally more nutritious and can help you feel fuller for longer.
  3. Avoid sugary drinks and foods. These can cause a quick spike in your blood sugar, followed by a crash that can leave you feeling tired and irritable.
  4. Stay hydrated by drinking plenty of water. This can help keep your energy levels up and aid in digestion.

To make sure you’re getting all the nutrients you need, you may want to consider taking a daily multivitamin.

Regular physical activity has numerous benefits, including improving your enjoyment of life in UK. Exercise is key to sustainable healthy lifestyle. Exercising more will optimise your health and well-being. Regular physical activity is essential for maintaining good health and well-being. It can help improve your mood, boost your energy levels, and support your overall health. To get started, try to incorporate some form of physical activity into your daily routine – this could be anything from going for a walk or jog to taking a fitness class.

In conclusion, getting enough sleep, eating well, and staying active are all important for living your best life. By making small changes to your routine, you can help support your overall health and well-being and feel your best every day.

Ideas to look after mind and body:

  • Eat a healthy, balanced diet that includes plenty of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains.
  • Exercise regularly, aiming for at least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity activity per week.
  • Get enough sleep, aiming for 7-9 hours per night.
  • Take time to relax and unwind, whether it’s through meditation, yoga, or just taking a few deep breaths.
  • Stay hydrated by drinking plenty of water throughout the day.
  • Avoid or limit alcohol, tobacco, and other substances that can be harmful to your health.
  • Take care of your mental health by seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional if you’re struggling.
  • Try to reduce stress by setting aside time for activities that you enjoy, and by practicing good time management and organization.
  • Avoiding sitting for long periods of time and take regular breaks to stretch and move around.
  • Stay connected with others and maintain a strong support network.

Overall, the key is to make healthy lifestyle choices that work for you and that help you feel your best. By taking care of your body and mind, you can improve your overall well-being and quality of life.

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Happiness is a state of mind that we all aspire to achieve. However, sometimes it can seem elusive and unattainable. The good news is that there are simple things that you can do every day to boost your happiness levels. In this article, we will discuss easy ways to be happy.

Practice gratitude
Gratitude is a powerful tool that can help us shift our focus from what we don’t have to what we do have. Take a few moments every day to reflect on the things that you are grateful for in your life. This can be anything from the roof over your head to the people who love you. By focusing on the positives, you will find that your mood improves, and you feel happier.

Spend time in nature
Spending time in nature has been shown to have a positive effect on our mental and emotional well-being. Being surrounded by greenery and fresh air can help reduce stress, boost our mood, and increase our overall sense of well-being. Try to spend at least a few minutes every day outside in nature, whether it’s taking a walk in the park or sitting on a bench in your backyard.

Connect with others
Humans are social creatures, and we thrive on connection with others. Make time every day to connect with the people in your life, whether it’s having a conversation with a friend, calling a family member, or even just exchanging a smile with a stranger. When we feel connected to others, we feel happier and more fulfilled.

Practice self-care
Self-care is essential for our physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Make time every day to do something that makes you feel good, whether it’s taking a relaxing bath, reading a book, or going for a walk. Taking care of ourselves is not selfish, but rather necessary to maintain a healthy and happy life.

Engage in activities you enjoy
Engaging in activities that you enjoy is an easy way to boost your happiness levels. Whether it’s playing a sport, painting, or cooking, doing things that bring us joy can help reduce stress and improve our mood. Make time every week to engage in activities that you enjoy, and you will notice a significant improvement in your overall well-being.

Get enough sleep
Sleep is essential for our physical and mental health. When we don’t get enough sleep, we can feel irritable, anxious, and depressed. Aim for at least 7-8 hours of sleep every night, and you will notice a significant improvement in your mood and overall well-being.

Practice mindfulness
Mindfulness is the practice of being present in the moment without judgment. When we practice mindfulness, we can reduce stress and anxiety, improve our mood, and increase our overall sense of well-being. Try to practice mindfulness every day, whether it’s through meditation, yoga, or simply taking a few deep breaths.

Volunteer
Volunteering is a great way to give back to your community and feel good about yourself. When we help others, we feel a sense of purpose and fulfillment that can boost our mood and overall sense of well-being. Look for volunteer opportunities in your community, whether it’s at a local food bank or animal shelter, and give back in any way that you can.

Practice forgiveness
Holding onto grudges and resentment can weigh us down and prevent us from feeling happy. Practice forgiveness every day, whether it’s forgiving yourself for a mistake or forgiving someone who has wronged you. Letting go of negative emotions can help us feel lighter and happier.

Learn something new
Learning something new can help us feel more confident and fulfilled. Whether it’s taking a class, learning a new skill, or simply reading a book on a topic that interests you, engaging in new learning experiences can boost our happiness levels. When we challenge ourselves to learn and grow, we feel a sense of accomplishment and fulfillment that can lead to greater happiness.

Laugh more
Laughter is often called the best medicine, and for good reason. Laughing has been shown to have a positive effect on our mood and overall well-being. Make time every day to engage in activities that make you laugh, whether it’s watching a funny movie or hanging out with friends who have a great sense of humor.

Focus on the present moment
Often, we get caught up in worries about the future or regrets about the past. By focusing on the present moment, we can reduce stress and anxiety and improve our overall sense of well-being. Try to practice mindfulness and focus on the present moment, rather than worrying about what may or may not happen in the future.

Exercise regularly
Exercise has been shown to have a positive effect on our physical and mental health. When we exercise, we release endorphins, which are natural feel-good chemicals that can boost our mood and overall sense of well-being. Make time every day to engage in physical activity, whether it’s going for a run, taking a yoga class, or simply going for a walk.

Eat a healthy diet
What we eat can have a significant impact on our mood and overall sense of well-being. Aim to eat a healthy and balanced diet that includes plenty of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean protein. Avoid processed foods and sugary drinks, which can contribute to feelings of sluggishness and fatigue.

Practice gratitude journaling
In addition to practicing gratitude every day, consider keeping a gratitude journal. Write down three things every day that you are grateful for, and reflect on them throughout the day. This can help shift your focus to the positives in your life and improve your overall sense of well-being.

Happiness is something that we can all achieve with a little bit of effort and mindfulness. By practicing gratitude, spending time in nature, connecting with others, engaging in activities we enjoy, getting enough sleep, practicing mindfulness, volunteering, practicing forgiveness, learning something new, laughing more, focusing on the present moment, exercising regularly, eating a healthy diet, and practicing gratitude journaling, we can boost our happiness levels and lead happier, more fulfilling lives. Start small, and incorporate one or two of these practices into your daily routine, and you will notice a significant improvement in your mood and overall sense of well-being.

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We’ve all been guilty of it at some point – being judgemental. But what exactly makes a person judgemental?

Being judgemental often stems from a need to feel superior or in control. We make assumptions about others based on limited information, and use those assumptions to classify and label them.

Social media can also contribute to judgemental behaviour, as it can be easy to hide behind a screen and make harmful comments without facing the consequences.

Judgement can also stem from a lack of understanding or empathy. We may judge someone who is different from us, without considering the reasons behind their actions or circumstances.

And sometimes, judgement is simply a reflection of our own biases and prejudices. We may judge others based on their race, gender, sexual orientation, or other factors, without even realising it.

It’s important to recognise when we’re being judgemental, and to work on understanding and accepting others. By doing so, we can create a more inclusive and compassionate world.

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How to manage stress in life in UK

Life the live you want with the people who want to live like you. This will help you think the same way talk the same way and act the same way. If everything in your life is aligned to help you thrive then you will. If there is negative competition in your life different parts of your life will fight to have the upper hand. This is very stressful.

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Instead of trying to overcome stress in your life set up your life so there is less stress created so it does not need to be overcome

Being true to yourself will mean you need to find less counter measures to cope with the stress you have created in your life. It can be tiring and damaging finding ways to reduce stress. It is much easier creating good habits that stop stress rearing its head in your life.

However first of all you need to know what you want in your life. Most people live the life they have been given. Some are very happy with what they have been given and that is ideal. If you are not then you need to figure out what would make you live a happier stress free good life.

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If you do not know what would make you happier then how can you change your life for the better?

When you ask the question you may find that what you already have is what you should be grateful for and stick with it. If you ask yourself what would make you happier and can write this down then you have a starting point fro which you can make improvements.

You now know where you are going you just have to work out how to get there.

  • What do you need to do every day that will take you a little closer to the ideal you?
  • What habits do you need to ditch to ensure you are not placing barriers in front of your own goals achievement?
  • Who can help you achieve what you want and who is standing in your way? How do you develop your positive enablers and how are you going to manage detractors?

Do not forget to reward yourself for your hard work. You need to make sure that you practice self love and look after yourself. Fun and relaxation is key to any stress that does build up in your life.

Do not over commit yourself to other people. Why do you spend so much time on people who could not care whether you lived or died! You have to be sure that you are responsible for people you care for but that does not mean sacrificing your life for others.

Prioritise tasks and energy. What is important should be done first not what is urgent. Things can be urgent but unimportant in the life plans you set for yourself.

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Break your life changes into small steps. What do you need to do each day week month year. Start with your new life plan and work back to the present day. What is important to do each day if you are to achieve the changes to your lifestyle that you want for yourself?

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