Sobriety Diary Over 55 Years Old

Observing the good and bad of sobriety

Over 55 Sobriety Journey 

I’ve tried to tread this path before. Not entirely seriously or with deliberate endeavour. However, I know it is the best thing for me. I just haven’t had the single-minded objectiveness till now. To help me complete the journey, and to look back at where I’ve come from, I thought I would journal my trip that has no final destination in my lifetime. With the exception of death, I can’t say I have completed the sobriety journey, but where else on my journey to alcohol-free death will my sobriety journey take me for the rest of my life?

FIRST 2 WEEKS OF SOBRIETY

I’ve been here before. The longest to date without drinking is around five months. That, so far, is a echoed in my first two weeks of my sobriety journey. Essentially for the first two weeks or so I just have to get through it any way I can. If that means eating more sweets than is healthy – I’ll do it. If it means i have to just slob out – I’ll do it. If it means I have to withdraw from doing things I normally enjoy – I’ll do it. There is no right or wrong except making an excuse to have just one drink thinking it’s a small cheat. That is cheating myself big time. Living an unhealthy lifestyle for a couple of weeks is not ideal but I don’t try to be perfect. My longer game benefits from stopping drinking will make up for a couple of weeks of downtime. The first moment I wake up feeling amazing instead of dull lacklustre or empty is the best feeling in the world bar none – and I mean none! The free high you experience that morning, I must try to remember and be grateful for. Gratitude is the key to happiness. 

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The first couple of weeks is always a de-pickling of the brain for me! I have had lots of periods which I have refrained from drinking alcohol. The first couple of weeks has always involved a physical change in the brain and a short period of mental numbness. Physical change claim, I am not a doctor, may or may not be true. There certainly seems to be what I call brain shrinkage. My brain seems to physically gurgle as it unsticks itself from my skull! This is why my medically untrained mind guesses that it is my brain shrinking due to the lack of alcohol? FYI, I do not intend to explore the physics or science behind my sobriety journey. It is my experience of the journey that I am journaling, not the medical facts of my sobriety journey.

I am only still sober one hour at a time. Maintaining sobriety is sometimes about not having a drink in the next 5 minutes never mind the next hour, day or month.

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I wouldn’t say I have failed before. I have never promised myself I would never have another drink before. I have had an aspiration before to not drink ever again. However having an aspiration is different from an objective. This sobriety journey is now a key goal in my life. Previously, the periods of not drinking have always come to an end before I died. This time, my goal is to die before I have another drink!

Sobriety is not my only goal. It will be a key part of totally changing my life. I need the clarity of thought that comes with sobriety to be of sharp mind when making dynamic lifestyle decisions. From my previous episodes of giving up drinking, I know that not drinking sharpens the mind. That benefit as always in the past been surrendered when I returned to drinking again. Even although previously sobriety was not the objective, I knew in my own mind that drinking again was a mistake if I wanted to live the best life I can live. So the return to drinking was always with immediate joy and delight from the alcohol high hit, shortly followed by different levels of regret, disappointment in myself and even sometimes shame. I’ve always known in the past what my best life involved and that doesn’t include drinking alcohol. In the past I have made different excuses to drink again, but this time I will have no excuses. This sobriety journey is a definite life goal. This time if I drink I will have failed.

This sobriety journey will encompass a total change of life. If there is such a thing as a wrong decision, then my clarity of thought that definitely comes with every period of alcohol abstinence, will be crucial to my new radical lifestyle changes. My first 2 weeks of being alcohol-free has come to an end with the usual glorious couple of mornings when I wake up incredibly happy. An overwhelming feeling of happiness burns inside my belly. It is not a smug joy. It is not a self-satisfied or selfish joy. It’s simply my mind discovering that my body has completed its first stage of repairing my brain. My brain is signalling it has recovered from the toxic abuse I have put it through most of my life. My brain is saying thank you. At last it can work again unhindered by the chemicals from alcohol inhibiting my minds ability to think properly. 

When I awake in the morning I am immediately aware of how happy I am. It is important for me not to get up. This moment is to be savoured. It will be the best moment of my day. I must spend a few minutes being even more aware mindful and grateful for this feeling of joy and delight to be alive today. I breathe more deeply slowly and deliberately through my nose only whilst observing all my senses more acutely to heighten the high I am now experiencing. I am now aware my nose is unblocked even though I did not know my nose was blocked over the last weeks months and perhaps years. More air is rushing to my lungs and my brain is lapping up the new boost of oxygen. Gradually sometimes immediately I am aware of new ideas of what to do today tomorrow and the rest of my life. Ideas I may  not know I was even thinking about before or ideas of how to solve problems I was struggling with yesterday. I know I need to dictate these ideas or writing them down type them into my phone so I do not forget these gems that have come into my life today. Without trying without asking without even needing, the universe has found the next steps to a better life specific to my life. I think the absence of alcohol over the last couple of weeks has deepened my sleep pattern. My brain has had a chance to rejuvenate, repair itself and understand what happened yesterday the day before or last year. My brain better understands what I want in life, and has mapped out what I need to do today tomorrow and the rest of my life but has only given me a few of the next steps I need to take. I am not greedy so I do not try to force these next baby steps into a full lifestyle plan and take them for what they are without trying to complete a jigsaw of my life. I need to be grateful for the little steps given during the night. Tomorrow I may be fortunate enough to receive more insight into how to change my life for the better, but for the moment I am just ecstatic that I have been placed with acute happiness. Not only have I woken up happier, I know what to do today to have a great day.

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Reaching this stage should be enough for me to never drink alcohol again. The payoff of not drinking is huge mentally and physically, but I know the demons within me are just resting. They are waiting for the right time to obscure the benefits of not drinking. If I am to complete my sobriety journey I will have to be more alert to the moments that will trip me up and end my sobriety journey. In the past I have not always failed to navigate the demons that dragged me back into a mediocre life. On at least one occasion I set out on the not drinking path without a a clear destination. Along the way, I picked a clear destination in terms of months ahead where I would drink – a planned holiday. I didn’t want to go on holiday and not drink. This helped to keep me on the path of not drinking but ultimately was a self defeating goal to set for myself. Mission completed with me drinking again! This time it’s different. My mission will only be completed if I never drink again. Why don’t you come along for the ride.

THIRD WEEK

Every day of not drinking in the third week has been better than any day of drinking.

The third week this time around is different from the third week on previous sobriety projects. On previous projects to remain sober, the third week was a lot harder. On reflection it is easier this time because my sobriety journey this time is to never drink again, as opposed to not drink for as long as possible, or not drink for a defined period.

If you are remaining sober for as long as possible, you are not sure when it is okay to have a drink or not. In the past I have given myself a pass or time-out. If you are aiming to never drink again, then obviously there is no day upon which it is okay to have a drink. Strangely, this time around it is easier to not drink in the third week now I have set the goal of never drinking again. Giving myself the clear unambiguous goal of forever stopping drinking has made it crystal clear what is and what is not acceptable. Knowing what failure looks like this time is obvious so as totally eliminated the option of having a cheeky drink and restarting the clock on my next sobriety timer project. The “I’ll do better next time” mentality.

What is consistent in the third week is the amount of extra energy I have. Boundless extra energy is one of the major gifts of sobriety. I can and do do so much more than any week I have had even a single drink. My focus on my life without a drink in it enables me to be hyper productive. Being more productive does not make me more successful this week but hopefully I will be more successful in life in future as well as sober. What success in life looks like is for me to determine – no one else. Success this far at not drinking is both a blessing and a potential trap. It can, if you allow it, present an opportunity to have a drink to celebrate! I’ve earned it! However, this time I have combined my sobriety journey with other major life change projects. These other projects soak up the extra time and energy I have from not drinking and make giving up drinking even more rewarding for me. The extra energy will not be wasted this time.

I think it is a good idea to have a clear plan of what I am going to do with the rest of my life. I can then invest the extra energy derived from not drinking to achieve more in my life than just sobriety. Even if my plan is a little more vague and uncertain than many would have, I at least have a vague idea of what a better life looks like for me. My life, like most perhaps, does not enable me to just do what I want. I have to have alternative routes loosely imagined or envisioned so that if life does not give me the opportunity I think is best for me or anticipated by me I can at least use plan B,C or D to find my way to my end destination or at least a new destination that is as equally satisfying and rewarding.

If I was just being sober for a set period, then it is best for me to have a full day. By this I mean I need distractions. Activities – distractions – help me to avoid creating opportunities for drinking and could include walking, cycling or doing a hobby. Whatever takes my mind and free time off drinking. However, as my plan is to be sober for the rest of my life, I feel I really need to capitalise on the gift of extra energy to really embroider upon the obvious health benefits of being sober. In my case, I am investing the extra energy into a more serious approach to my business ideas including the creation of more income.

This week I have made the mistake of not going to bed earlier. By earlier I mean 9 to 10pm in the evening. It has resulted in me still waking early in the morning absolutely refreshed, but flagging in mid to late afternoon. In my semi-retirement, I am lucky that I have the option of having a nap. but this for me can be lethal in terms of disrupting my enjoyment of life. I find it better to push through and not nap if I can, but sometimes a nap is the best option as it can give a little boost.

This does depend on whether you are a night person or a morning person. Going to bed between 9 and 10pm is the optimal time for me but I do recommend going to bed at same time every single night and your body should adjust to wake you up at same time every morning without an alarm clock. The benefit of this is that your body is more balanced if you have consistent lifestyle pattern, in my experience.

A peculiar thing I have found from my bouts of not drinking is that the odd days can be harder than the evens! 1,3,5 etc have been harder than 2,4, 6 etc days. I have absolutely no explanation for this. It is however worth noting that some days are harder than others for absolutely no reason whatsoever. I think it wise simply to accept this rather than search for reasons or lessons.

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In addition, life can get in the way of best laid plans. A birthday, works event or some other social occasion create opportunities to make excuses to have a drink. Navigating past these pitfalls is perhaps the hardest part of a change to sobriety. I need to have a plan for such threats of failure. Soft drinks or alcohol-free drinks work for some but not giving a damn what others think of you is the best plan. This involves me not drinking anything at all. After the first couple of drinks rounds have passed I realise I can not only cope but enjoy alcohol-free socialising. After the adrenaline on arrival subsides I love the dawning of the fact that I really don’t need to drink alcohol to enjoy myself. There does come a time after half a dozen drinks that you become detached from from your drunk companions. They are on a different mission from me. I can’t go with them. I have to pick a time to leave early. The feeling of leaving early becomes a relief or even elation not sadness. I don’t have FOMO any more. Remembering how good I am going to feel tomorrow is reward for leaving early.

FOURTH WEEK

My fourth week was a strange week. An unasked review of my life. Happy to live in present, I found my mind wandering off on its own to the past.

I had not set out on my sobriety journey to discover were things had gone wrong in my life. Where I was four weeks ago in my life was quietly happy with the exception of my drinking habit. I knew back then drinking did not provide a nett benefit to my enjoyment of my life. Strange therefore that my mind repeatedly wandered off into the past to look at my life differently via new unglazed goggles.

Turns out my successes in the past may not have been successes and my failures have been my successes. Furthermore, I think now that drinking has never made my highs better and always played some role in my lows. I used alcohol to try to feel part of the perceived in-crowd or part of the team or even just part of the perceived best things in the world. I think I wanted to merge-in instead of trying to be extraordinary.

Alcohol didn’t help me merge-in. It made me zone-out. The numbness to life under the effects of alcohol wasn’t a good thing. At times I needed to feel numb, not to feel more alive. I know now that living life alcohol-free makes me feel so much more alive. In the bad old days, most of my life, I mistakenly thought alcohol was good for me when in fact it was never good for me at any time. Happy and sad times were always negatively impacted or made worse with alcohol.

Now both my happy and and sad times are so much better experienced sober. Being sober does not make my life less troublesome. It does enable me to manage the good and bad better. Being sober does not make my life better. Being sober makes your appreciation of living better and gratitude for what I do have in my life more real. Being sober makes me happier, even if my life could be perceived as less attractive or unsuccessful.

The success of my life is measured better by me doing the analysis of me rather than concerning myself with other people’s assessment of my life. Having a clearer sober mind facilitates better more honest quicker trustworthy calculations by me. Being sober may not make me more successful in my lifetime, but it will enable me to love what does transpire in my life more.

Sobriety does not make me less ambitious. Sobriety makes me more confident and focused on my ability to make the right choices for the right reasons and that will make my assessment of my life better.

Another curious physical change I find during sobriety is what I call the physical drying-up sensation and unblocking of my nose and sinuses. I can breathe through my nose and sinuses. I can breathe through my nose more freely. Not sure what the medical reasoning may be for this, but each and every time I have stopped drinking for a period, this physical experience occurs!

FIRST TWO MONTHS SOBRIETY

The biggest gains physically and mentally come in the first month to 6 weeks. That’s when the biggest differences can be felt. Definitely, the decision to give up drinking forever makes it easier to give up drinking. A clear unequivocal commitment with no get-out clause helps me to set my mind on what is right and wrong.

The second month is easier than the first month. There is more at stake, more to waste, if I give up in the second month, by my desire to drink in the second month us is less.

There is a feeling of further clarity of thinking unencumbered by drink in the second month, it’s just not as obvious an improvement witnessed in the first month.

All-in-all this should monthly stoppers some encouragement. Those flirting with giving up for good. If you can do one month you can easily do two, etc. Furthermore, returning to drinking after a month off with a view of having another month off sometime in future is harder than giving up for good. The first month off seems to be the hardest.

Drink-free is more rewarding. More satisfying. My mind is more capable to appreciating my life. More grateful for what I have in my life. It can make the bad more raw, but it makes the good better. Not drinking gives me a more genuine experience of life. Sure alcohol can anesthetise the bad but it also anesthetise the good experiences.

Living a more real life without alcohol is my life now. Maybe it could be yours too. It’s not as hard to give up drinking if your mind is clear why you want to give up drinking.

Quit Alcohol: 10 Tips

Breaking Free from Alcohol: Expert Tips and Tricks

If you’re looking to give up alcohol, you’re not alone. Many people in the UK struggle with alcohol addiction and are looking for ways to quit. Here are the top 10 tips to help you give up alcohol:

  1. Set realistic goals: Set a target for how much you want to reduce your alcohol consumption and stick to it. Gradual reduction is often more achievable than quitting cold turkey.
  2. Find alternative activities: Find alternative ways to relax and socialise that don’t involve alcohol, such as exercise, hobbies, or spending time with friends and family.
  3. Avoid triggers: Identify situations that trigger your alcohol cravings and try to avoid them, such as certain bars or social events.
  4. Keep yourself busy: Stay busy with work, hobbies, and social activities to help distract you from alcohol cravings.
  5. Seek support: Find friends, family, or a support group who understand your struggle and can provide you with emotional support and encouragement.
  6. Keep track of your progress: Keep a diary of your alcohol consumption and take note of how you feel after you quit. This can help you stay motivated and see your progress.
  7. Try medication: Consider taking medication such as naltrexone, acamprosate, or disulfiram, which can help reduce alcohol cravings.
  8. Get professional help: Consult with a doctor or therapist who specialises in alcohol addiction. They can provide you with personalized support and treatment.
  9. Consider a rehabilitation program: If your alcohol addiction is severe, consider enrolling in a rehabilitation program where you can receive professional help and support.
  10. Remember why you want to quit: Keep in mind the reasons why you want to quit alcohol, such as improving your health, finances, or relationships. Use these reasons as motivation to stay sober.

Remember, quitting alcohol is a journey and it’s important to take it one day at a time. With patience, determination, and support, you can overcome alcohol addiction and lead a healthier, happier life.

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From Addiction to Abstinence

Quitting alcohol can be a challenging but life-changing decision. Whether you’re struggling with addiction or simply looking to lead a healthier lifestyle, here’s a comprehensive guide to help you on your journey from addiction to abstinence.

Recognise the Problem: The first step in quitting alcohol is acknowledging that you have a problem. Be honest with yourself and evaluate the impact of alcohol on your life, including your health, relationships, work, and overall well-being. Accepting that you have a problem is an important starting point for change.

Set Clear Goals: Once you’ve recognised the problem, set clear and achievable goals for quitting alcohol. It’s important to define your reasons for quitting and what you hope to achieve by abstaining from alcohol. Whether it’s improved health, better relationships, or a more fulfilling life, having clear goals can provide you with motivation and direction.

Seek Support: Quitting alcohol can be challenging, and it’s important to have a support system in place. Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist who can provide emotional support and help you stay accountable. Consider joining a support group, such as Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), which provides a community of individuals who are also on the journey to sobriety.

Develop Coping Strategies: Alcohol often serves as a coping mechanism for dealing with stress, anxiety, or other emotions. When quitting alcohol, it’s important to develop healthy coping strategies to replace alcohol as a means of dealing with difficult emotions. This can include practicing relaxation techniques, engaging in physical exercise, journaling, or seeking professional help if needed.

Remove Triggers: Identify and remove triggers that tempt you to drink. This can include avoiding places, people, or situations that trigger cravings for alcohol. Make changes in your routine or lifestyle to minimise exposure to triggers, and create a supportive environment that promotes abstinence.

Create a Plan: Develop a plan for how to handle cravings or temptations. Have a list of alternative activities or distractions that you can turn to when cravings arise. Identify healthy outlets for stress or negative emotions, such as going for a walk, talking to a friend, or practicing mindfulness.

Take Care of Your Physical Health: Quitting alcohol can have physical effects on your body. Take care of your physical health by eating a balanced diet, staying hydrated, and getting regular exercise. Seek medical attention if you experience withdrawal symptoms, and be mindful of any underlying health conditions that may have been exacerbated by alcohol use.

Practice Self-Care: Sobriety is a journey of self-care. Take time to prioritise your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Engage in activities that bring you joy, practice self-compassion, and prioritise self-care as an essential part of your recovery journey.

Stay Accountable: Hold yourself accountable for your decision to quit alcohol. Keep track of your progress, celebrate your achievements, and learn from any setbacks. Surround yourself with supportive people who can help you stay accountable to your goals.

Create a New Life: Quitting alcohol is not just about giving up a habit, but also about creating a new, fulfilling life without alcohol. Explore new hobbies, discover healthy ways to have fun, and focus on building a meaningful and fulfilling life that aligns with your values.
Remember, quitting alcohol is a personal journey, and it’s important to be patient with yourself. Recovery is not always easy, and setbacks may happen along the way. But with determination, support, and a comprehensive plan, it is possible to overcome addiction and achieve a healthy, fulfilling life of abstinence. Seek professional help if needed, and remember that you are not alone. Recovery is possible, and you deserve a happy, healthy, and sober life.

Practice Relapse Prevention: Relapse is a common part of the recovery process, but it doesn’t have to be the end of your journey to abstinence. Learn to recognise triggers and warning signs of relapse, and have a plan in place for how to handle them. This can include reaching out to your support system, engaging in healthy coping strategies, and reminding yourself of your reasons for quitting alcohol.

Address Underlying Issues: Many individuals turn to alcohol as a way to cope with underlying emotional or mental health issues. As part of your journey to abstinence, it’s important to address these underlying issues through therapy, counseling, or other appropriate interventions. Understanding and addressing the root causes of your alcohol use can greatly enhance your chances of long-term abstinence.

Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness is a powerful tool that can help you stay present in the moment and manage cravings or triggers. Incorporate mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing, meditation, or mindfulness exercises, into your daily routine to help you stay grounded and focused on your recovery journey.

Build a Supportive Social Network: Surround yourself with supportive individuals who understand and respect your decision to quit alcohol. Build a social network that encourages and supports your sobriety. This can include attending support group meetings, connecting with sober friends, or engaging in activities that do not revolve around alcohol.

Take it One Day at a Time: Recovery is a process that requires patience and persistence. Focus on taking it one day at a time, and celebrate each day of sobriety as a significant accomplishment. Avoid overwhelming yourself with thoughts of the future, and instead, stay focused on the present moment and the progress you are making.

Practice Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your journey, your emotions, and your progress. Journaling, therapy, or self-reflection exercises can help you gain insight into your triggers, emotions, and patterns of behaviour. Understanding yourself better can empower you to make positive changes and stay committed to your goal of abstinence.

Celebrate Milestones: Celebrate your milestones along the way. Whether it’s a week, a month, a year, or more of sobriety, acknowledge and celebrate your achievements. Treat yourself to something special, share your success with your support system, and take pride in your progress.

Stay Committed to Self-Care: Self-care is crucial in recovery. Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental health by getting enough sleep, eating well, and engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Prioritise self-care as a non-negotiable part of your daily routine to support your overall well-being and resilience in your recovery journey.

Stay Positive and Patient: Recovery from alcohol addiction is a challenging process that requires time and effort. It’s important to stay positive and patient with yourself as you navigate the ups and downs of the journey. Be kind to yourself, practice self-compassion, and remember that change takes time.

Stay Committed to Your Goals: Finally, stay committed to your goals of abstinence from alcohol. Remind yourself of your reasons for quitting, and stay focused on the positive changes that sobriety can bring to your life. Surround yourself with reminders of your commitment, such as affirmations, notes, or symbols, and stay determined in your pursuit of a healthy, alcohol-free life.
Quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence is a challenging but rewarding journey. It requires dedication, self-reflection, and support from others. Remember to be kind to yourself, seek help when needed, and stay committed to your goals. With determination, support, and a comprehensive plan in place, you can successfully overcome alcohol addiction and achieve a healthier, happier, and more fulfilling life of abstinence

Seek Professional Help: If you find yourself struggling with quitting alcohol or maintaining abstinence despite your best efforts, don’t hesitate to seek professional help. Addiction counsellors, therapists, or medical professionals can provide additional support, guidance, and resources to aid you in your recovery journey. They can also help you address any underlying mental health issues that may be contributing to your alcohol use.

Create a Relapse Prevention Plan: A relapse prevention plan is a crucial tool in maintaining abstinence. Work with your counselor or therapist to create a personalised plan that includes strategies to identify and manage triggers, coping skills to deal with cravings, and a plan of action if a relapse occurs. Having a plan in place can help you stay proactive in preventing relapse and staying on track with your recovery goals.

Build a Healthy Lifestyle: Engage in healthy lifestyle choices that support your recovery. This can include regular exercise, a nutritious diet, and adequate sleep. Taking care of your physical health can help you feel better overall and reduce the risk of relapse.

Develop Healthy Coping Skills: Alcohol may have been your previous coping mechanism, but it’s important to develop healthy coping skills that can help you manage stress, emotions, and triggers in a positive way. This can include mindfulness, deep breathing, exercise, hobbies, or talking to a trusted friend or family member.

Learn from Relapses: Relapses can happen in the recovery process, but it’s essential to view them as learning opportunities rather than failures. If you do experience a relapse, take the time to reflect on the triggers and circumstances that led to it, and use it as an opportunity to reassess and strengthen your recovery plan.

Practice Assertiveness: Learning to say no and set boundaries is crucial in maintaining abstinence. Practice assertiveness skills to communicate your needs, assert your boundaries, and avoid situations that may trigger your alcohol use. Surround yourself with individuals who respect and support your decision to abstain from alcohol.

Find Healthy Ways to Have Fun: Alcohol may have been associated with socialising and having fun in the past, but it’s important to find healthy ways to enjoy yourself without alcohol. Discover new hobbies, engage in activities that bring you joy, and build a fulfilling and enjoyable life without the need for alcohol.

Stay Mindful of High-Risk Situations: Be aware of high-risk situations that may trigger your alcohol use, such as parties, social events, or stressful situations. Have a plan in place to manage these situations, such as bringing a sober friend with you, having an exit strategy, or using healthy coping skills to manage cravings.

Practice Self-Compassion: Recovery is a challenging process, and it’s important to be kind to yourself along the way. Practice self-compassion, forgive yourself for past mistakes, and be patient with yourself as you navigate the ups and downs of recovery. Treat yourself with the same love and care you would offer to a friend in a similar situation.

Stay Committed to Your Sobriety: Finally, stay committed to your sobriety and make it a priority in your life. Surround yourself with a supportive network, continue to engage in healthy coping strategies, and seek help when needed. Remember that recovery is a lifelong journey, and staying committed to your sobriety is essential for maintaining abstinence from alcohol.
Quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence is a courageous and transformative journey. It may come with challenges, but with perseverance, self-care, support, and a comprehensive plan in place, it is possible to achieve and maintain a fulfilling life of sobriety. Remember to be patient, kind to yourself, and seek professional help when needed. You are capable of overcoming alcohol addiction and living a healthier, happier, and more fulfilled life without alcohol. Celebrate your progress and achievements along the way, and remember that every step towards sobriety is a step towards a brighter future.

In conclusion, quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence requires commitment, effort, and support. It’s important to have a plan in place, seek professional help when needed, and prioritize self-care and healthy coping skills. With determination, resilience, and a supportive network, you can overcome alcohol addiction and lead a fulfilling life in recovery. You deserve a life free from the negative impacts of alcohol, and you are capable of achieving and maintaining abstinence. Take it one day at a time, stay focused on your goals, and never give up on your journey towards lasting sobriety.

Remember, if you or someone you know is struggling with alcohol addiction, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. There are many resources available, including addiction counselors, therapists, support groups, and treatment centers that can provide the necessary support and guidance. You are not alone, and recovery is possible. Take the first step towards a healthier, happier life by seeking help and taking action towards quitting alcohol and maintaining abstinence. You deserve a brighter future, and it’s never too late to start your journey towards recovery.

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Are you in the best retirement mindset? If you are not in the right frame of mind it is harder to make retirement planning and retirement lifestyle improvement work well for you. Retirement life can be the greatest years of your life. The best age to retire depends on what will make you happy in retirement and the retirement fund you have to make it work for you. Exploring how to enjoy life after retirement in UK with Cheeringup.info.

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Preparing for better retirement in UK takes careful planning and being honest about what you really want out of life before you die!

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Long-term retirement travel includes potential sacrifices like not being near family and friends. Annual holidays in retirement can be more expensive to see what you could see on a long-term retirement travel plan. There are trade-offs in most things in life and retirement life is no different.

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You may may have picked up on emotional signs you need to retire. That does not mean you have to retire for good. Unretirement to go back to your career full time or just part-time is not a sign of failure to enjoy retirement. It may just mean you have recharged your batteries and you are happy to return to working life.

Alternatively, you may find inspiration to radically change career whilst in retirement or before you retire. Doing more of what you like in your own business or working for someone else may just be the change you really need.

Lastly, you may not fancy going back to work in any form, for any length of time but are bored in retirement. This can be emotionally challenging too. Finding something to enhance your retirement lifestyle and stop you being bored may require a little effort. Falling into the best retirement lifestyle for you is unlikely for most. Small adjustments to major surgery to your retirement lifestyle may be required to make you truly happy in retirement.

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What to do when you retire UK?

  • What do you like and what do you not like?
  • Have you the money to do what you do like?
  • How flexible are you and your retirement budget?

You do not need money to be happy in retirement but you may need more money if what you want to do requires a bigger retirement lifestyle budget. You may consider that it is better to retire emotionally without the budget you need rather than continue working to build the retirement fund you need if you hate what your job entails. Only you can decide but we aim to give you the information and opportunity to inform your retirement lifestyle decision making.

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Thinking you can’t change your mind or change yourself. Change is not just open to the young! Just because you are closer to the exit than your entrance does not mean you can’t totally change – if you want to change. You have earned the right to be who you want to be, do what you want to do or not do things you don’t want to do or be. If you can’t live the life you want now, when will be the right time?

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Retirement is a time of great change and opportunity. It can be a time to relax and enjoy the fruits of your labor, or it can be a time to start new adventures and pursue your passions. No matter what you choose to do, there are a few things you can do to make sure your retirement is happy and fulfilling.

  1. Get your finances in order.

One of the most important things you can do to prepare for retirement is to get your finances in order. This means making sure you have enough money to cover your expenses, as well as having a plan for how you will save for healthcare and other long-term needs. There are a number of resources available to help you with this, such as financial advisors and government programs.

  1. Stay active and healthy.

Retirement is a great time to focus on your health and well-being. This means eating a healthy diet, getting regular exercise, and getting enough sleep. It is also important to stay socially connected and engaged in activities that you enjoy. Staying active and healthy will help you to enjoy your retirement years to the fullest.

  1. Find new interests and hobbies.

Retirement is a great time to explore new interests and hobbies. This could mean anything from taking up a new sport to learning a new language. There are many opportunities available to retirees, so take some time to explore your options and find something that you are passionate about.

  1. Give back to your community.

Retirement is a great time to give back to your community. This could mean volunteering for a local organisation, mentoring young people, or simply being a good neighbour. Giving back to your community is a great way to stay active, meet new people, and make a difference in the world.

  1. Travel and explore.

Retirement is a great time to travel and explore the world. This could mean taking a long-awaited vacation or simply visiting new places closer to home. Traveling is a great way to learn about different cultures, experience new things, and make memories that will last a lifetime.

  1. Spend time with loved ones.

Retirement is a great time to spend time with loved ones. This could mean visiting family and friends, going on vacations together, or simply spending time at home. Spending time with loved ones is a great way to stay connected, build memories, and enjoy your retirement years.

  1. Take things slow.

Retirement is a time to slow down and enjoy life. This means taking things at your own pace, relaxing, and doing the things you love. Don’t feel pressured to do anything you don’t want to do. Just relax and enjoy the ride.

Retirement is a wonderful time of life. It is a time to relax, enjoy your hobbies, and spend time with loved ones. By following these tips, you can make sure your retirement is happy and fulfilling.

Here are some additional tips to help you have a happy retirement:

Stay positive. A positive attitude can go a long way in helping you enjoy your retirement years.

Be flexible. Things don’t always go according to plan, so it’s important to be flexible and adaptable.

Don’t be afraid to ask for help. If you need help with anything, don’t be afraid to ask for it from your friends, family, or community.

Celebrate your successes. Retirement is a time to celebrate all of your accomplishments. Take some time to reflect on all that you’ve achieved and be proud of yourself.

Retirement is a wonderful time of life. Make the most of it by following these tips and living your best life.

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How to mentally adjust to retirement UK

Spending most of your life working means that not working is going to be challenging as well as fulfilling. Working out your best retirement lifestyle need not be rushed and only you can plan your best retired life. Give yourself time to adjust emotionally and physically to a different life. Living your best life in retirement does not mean your life will be happy all the time. Don’t beat yourself up that your life does not look idyllic from outside. Your not bothered by what other people think of you by now. What do you want your life in retirement to look like for you?

Having some structure to your retirement life can help you to frame what your retirement lifestyle needs to look like for you. You know roughly each day what needs to be in your day to feel you are living well in your retirement. Completing your daily retirement goals will help to trigger endorphins that will contribute to a happier day of retired life. For you to experience this daily buzz of satisfaction your daily goals need to be specific and measurable – you know what you need to do each day and know when it is done. The daily goals need to achievable and realistic, so need to take account of your financial, physical and mental health. The daily goals need to do what the say on tin – need to be completable within the day. They should not be grand plans to be tackled over the rest of your life unless the grand plan can be broken down into small daily bites that are specific and measurable.

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How To Embrace Ageing Positively In The UK

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Embrace ageing. Stop worrying about ageing. Change your mindset. Live happier in retirement in UK. Getting older is something we should embrace joyously. Strike a positive view on ageing. The UK news often portrays the older generation as a burden on society. Filling hospital beds we are bed blockers not positive contributers to society. We are probably both in reality! However nothing is guaranteed in life except death and taxes so we must seek out the best life we can later in life.

Defying ageing is a losing game. It is expensive and ultimately unfruitful. However embracing ageing can be inexpensive and achievable for most people with more effort.

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Change your whole approach to ageing well in the UK. The proportion of people who are older is increasing all the time in the UK. That will bring problems but this does not mean we should not welcome older age.

Fight against anti ageing philosophy and instead embrace all the things it brings including longer to enjoy life and living in UK!

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Positively embrace older age with CheeringupInfo. The later stage of life can be as mobile exciting and as enjoyable as any other age. In fact older age fro many offers greater opportunities to enjoy life more not less.

It is only a few generations ago that people in the UK retired in 60s lived for a couple of years then died! Now most people can live for another 20 to 30 years.

Would you write off your early life

Hopefully not so do not write yourself off in older age. Live a healthier happier life with CheeringupInfo. Use the extra time positively the UK has worked hard to give most people living in the UK. You should expect to live into your mid 80s at least. More of us will live to over a century than ever have.

Enjoy every moment of your life including your retirement years. Figure out what you can do and then plan clearly how you are going to do it. Lead as full a life as you can.

Know who you are and what you want from life in UK

If you have not taken time to figure out what you want from life now is the time to start! Clearly financial resources and health conditions can place limitations on what you can realistically do. However if you do not try to life a better life in retirement then it is unlikely anyone else can do it for you.

If your internal voice is doubting your ability to change your life then start moving more engaging more and eating better.

  • Exercise within your own limits will make you feel better.
  • Interacting with people you meet more will give you a sense of belonging.
  • Eating and drinking better will boost your wellness and energy levels

The next step may be to look at what you can do differently in your life that will make you enjoy life and feel happier.

Do not accept the many negative messages about ageing that are prevalent in society and the media. Just look at the runners and riders in 2020 to be next president of America. Most are in mid 70s or older. If they can run USA you can find one thing to bring a sense of joy accomplishment or satisfaction each year?

Embrace the challenges of life and set out to try and overcome them. Build your strength resilience and independence as you age instead of letting them slip. Age well with a positive outlook on life in UK.

What ageing well means for each of us will vary on personal circumstances. However everyone can make small changes to improve retirement or older lifestyle. Embrace ageing with a positive mindset.

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Control what you can control to improve your health and reduce the risk of dementia

Is it possible to prevent dementia? For some no but most people can reduce the risk of suffering from dementia. Pick up tips to reduce the risk of dementia.

Take control of your health. There is little point worrying about the things you cannot control like genetic predilection to dementia if you are smoking socially isolated not exercising physically and mentally drinking too much and have poor diet.

Common dementia risk factors

There are things that increase your risk of dementia. If you tackle the dementia risk factors then you have a better chance of not suffering from dementia at any age as it is not just older people who have dementia.

Reduce risk of Alzheimer’s

Alzheimer’s disease is a progressive and degenerative brain disorder that affects memory, thinking, and behavior. It is the most common cause of dementia in older adults and is characterised by the loss of cognitive function and the ability to perform everyday activities.

Symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease typically begin with mild memory loss and difficulty completing familiar tasks, but as the disease progresses, symptoms can include confusion, mood and behaviour changes, and difficulty speaking, swallowing, and walking. There is no known cure for Alzheimer’s disease, and it is ultimately fatal.

There are many risk factors for developing Alzheimer’s disease, including advancing age, genetics, and a family history of the disease. However, there are also several lifestyle factors that can increase the risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease, such as smoking, physical inactivity, high blood pressure, and poor diet.

To reduce the risk of experiencing Alzheimer’s disease, there are several steps you can take:

  1. Exercise regularly: Physical activity has been shown to improve brain function and may reduce the risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease.
  2. Eat a healthy diet: A diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains and low in saturated fats and sugar may help reduce the risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease.
  3. Stay mentally active: Engaging in activities that challenge the brain, such as reading, puzzles, and games, may help keep the brain healthy and reduce the risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease.
  4. Don’t smoke: Smoking has been linked to an increased risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia.
  5. Control your blood pressure: High blood pressure has been linked to an increased risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease.
  6. Get enough sleep: Lack of sleep has been linked to an increased risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease.
  7. Stay socially active: Socializing and staying connected with others may help protect against the development of Alzheimer’s disease.
  8. Manage stress: Chronic stress has been linked to an increased risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease.
  9. Avoid head injuries: Traumatic brain injuries have been linked to an increased risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease.
  10. Consider taking certain supplements: Some studies have suggested that certain supplements, such as vitamin D and omega-3 fatty acids, may help reduce the risk of developing Alzheimer’s disease. However, it is important to speak with a healthcare professional before starting any new supplements.

While there is currently no cure for Alzheimer’s disease, taking steps to reduce your risk of developing the disease may help protect your brain health as you age.

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What are the first signs of Alzheimer’s and how does it differ from dementia?

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What are the first signs of Alzheimer’s and how does it differ from dementia?

Alzheimer’s disease is a type of dementia, a general term for loss of memory, language, problem-solving and other thinking abilities that are severe enough to interfere with daily life. Alzheimer’s is the most common cause of dementia, accounting for 60-70% of cases.

The first signs of Alzheimer’s can be subtle and may go unnoticed for some time. However, there are a few key symptoms that can be a red flag. These include:

  • Memory loss. This is the most common early symptom of Alzheimer’s. People with Alzheimer’s may have trouble remembering recent events, names, or faces. They may also forget things they used to know how to do, such as how to cook a meal or how to get to a familiar place.
  • Language problems. People with Alzheimer’s may have trouble finding the right words, or they may use words incorrectly. They may also have trouble understanding what others are saying.
  • Problem-solving and planning. People with Alzheimer’s may have trouble making decisions or solving problems. They may also have trouble following through on plans.
  • Changes in mood and behaviour. People with Alzheimer’s may become more withdrawn or irritable. They may also have trouble controlling their emotions.

It is important to note that these symptoms can also be caused by other medical conditions, such as depression, vitamin deficiencies, or side effects of medications. If you are concerned about your memory or thinking skills, it is important to see a doctor to rule out other causes.

How can you tell if a person has Alzheimer’s or dementia?

There is no single test that can definitively diagnose Alzheimer’s disease. However, there are a number of tests that can be used to rule out other causes of dementia and to assess the severity of the condition. These tests may include:

  • Neuropsychological testing. This type of testing measures cognitive skills such as memory, language, and problem-solving.
  • Brain imaging. This can help to rule out other causes of dementia, such as stroke or brain tumor.
  • Blood tests. These tests can check for vitamin deficiencies or other medical conditions that can cause dementia-like symptoms.

If you are concerned that you or someone you know may have Alzheimer’s disease, it is important to see a doctor for evaluation. Early diagnosis and treatment can help to slow the progression of the disease and improve quality of life.

How do you check for early Alzheimer’s?

There is no single test that can definitively diagnose Alzheimer’s disease in its early stages. However, there are a number of things that your doctor can do to assess your risk and to rule out other possible causes of your symptoms. These may include:

  • A complete medical history and physical exam. Your doctor will ask about your symptoms and your family history of dementia. They will also perform a physical exam to look for any signs of other medical conditions that could be causing your symptoms.
  • Neuropsychological testing. This type of testing measures your cognitive skills, such as memory, language, and problem-solving. This can help your doctor to assess the severity of your symptoms and to rule out other possible causes of dementia.
  • Brain imaging. This can help your doctor to rule out other causes of dementia, such as stroke or brain tumor.

If your doctor suspects that you may have Alzheimer’s disease, they may recommend that you see a specialist in dementia care. This specialist can help you to understand your diagnosis and to develop a treatment plan.

What can early stages of a dementia like Alzheimer’s often be confused with?

The early stages of Alzheimer’s disease can often be confused with other medical conditions, such as depression, vitamin deficiencies, or side effects of medications. It is important to see a doctor to rule out these other possibilities before making a diagnosis of Alzheimer’s disease.

Some of the conditions that can be confused with Alzheimer’s disease include:

  • Depression. Depression can cause symptoms such as memory loss, difficulty concentrating, and changes in mood. However, depression is usually treatable with medication or therapy, while Alzheimer’s disease is not.
  • Vitamin B12 deficiency. Vitamin B12 deficiency can cause symptoms such as memory loss, fatigue, and numbness in the hands and feet. Vitamin B12 deficiency can be easily treated with supplements, so it is important to see a doctor to rule out this possibility.
  • Side effects of medications. Some medications, such as sedatives and anticholinergics, can cause symptoms that mimic Alzheimer’s disease. If you are taking any medications, it is important to talk to your doctor about the potential side effects.
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